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Nothing will get better or change if you do not accept the fact that “shit happens” all the time/part of being alive.




What would you do if I could provide you with the opportunity to travel back in time and re-take a very poor choice that you made somewhere in your past? Would you grasp such opportunity with both hands? Would you still accept my offer if I added that you will be allowed to make a different choice, but then you lose everything that happened to you since that fateful day.

You will lose all the money you earned, the friends you made and all the other things that you participated in since that fateful day. Do you feel convinced that your life would have turned out so much better if you decided differently on that fateful day? Can you with a high degree of certainty say that your life would have been much better than it turned out for you up to now?

Most people hesitate when I ask them this question because they do not want to take the risk of the alternative choice and the unknown that they will be force to travel in. What people often forget is that they start each day with the unknown staring them in the face. The day becomes what they make of it. The quality of your life is decided by the quality of the choices that you make.

We sometimes make wise choices and our boat of life travels on calm waters for a while, but sometimes we make poor decisions and end up getting beaten to a pulp by the force of the waves of life. The real key to life is to accept that you will never be able to make wise choices all the time. You will remain an apprentice human until the day you die. You can read all the books you can lay your hands on and will still be face with the unpredictable.

The only sure thing in life is that you will never reach a permanent safe harbor. You will never be fully out of danger and could fall prey to an endless number of things every second that you are alive. There will be very little benefit in going back to retake your perceived poor decision. Soon after you made the perceived “right” choice your life will begin to gravitate in the same direction you find yourself in today.

You might as well accept that life is not fair and that the only way to live is to give each moment the best you have. You are making up your life story as you go along. You must begin to believe in yourself and know that you will be able to take care of whatever you are confronted with.




It is easy to look back on your life and to search for excuses for your bad lucks and touch breaks. You can sit and feel sorry for yourself all you like. Nothing will get better or change if you do not accept the fact that “shit happens” all the time and that it is part of being alive. You will never reach a stage where you will be able to feel really secure and tranquil. You will be faced with changes and problems until the final day you spend on this troubled plane.

Most people that “role play” that they love and respect you are doing it for the benefit that they have of being associated with you. You are fooling yourself if you think that most people that are currently playing in your game of life really care about your feelings, emotions and dreams. They might not even know it themselves, but they are connected to you because there is some kind of benefit for them in the deal.


Wake up and smell the coffee my friend. You are the only person that can do something about your fate. You can engineer your life into a ditch or a million dollar home. You are in for a nasty surprise if you continue to wait for others to make life happen for you, You will one day find out that a large number of the people that attended your parties and drank your wine are nothing more than human parasites. They feed off your energy, money, insecurity or some other benefit that their association with you brings them. You will one day discover how most of these rats jump ship when your boat of life begins to take in too much water.






Everybody has a dream and anyone can prosper. You just need a plan that works. Many people have lost their purpose and are tied into the “rat race”. Why? It’s a safer option based on fear! People find it easier to trade their Dreams for security. Which then means that their entire lives revolve around a budget. It’s a limited way to live. This way the budget runs your life. You can only do what the budget allows month after month, year after year. It doesn’t neccessarily mean that you don’t work hard. The question to ask yourself is, will your plan give you financial freedom? Take a look at three steps that I want to share with you and start thinking about your future.


Focus on success

The future entails the success you desire. Name everything you want. Think about those things and Imagine how you would feel having them. Focus is the key to success, the only thing that will keep you going is imagining the feeling you will get from those things. To change your outer world you have to change your inner world first. You are what you think about. Ultimately, if you think success you will have no choice but to experience success. However, you must turn these thoughts into actions by setting small achievable goals. Anyone can do it. I have the opportuinity to meet very prominent and rich people all the time. Believe it or not what sets them apart is ofcourse their bank balance but they only do what broke people only think about.


Its not worth your time thinking about something you are not willing to act upon.




Create your own universe

Once you have established what you want, this thought should become your chorus, dont stop. Think about, talk about and act about your success. Create your own universe by loading into your life everything you want in it. Anything that does not fit in it or complement it has to go. You have to be very positive and if people around you are negative, train them to be positive, it will work in your favour. Creating your own universe is really the fun bit, almost like being a celebrity!


Tip- Create an album of your future.


Walk into your future

At this stage, imagine you have a briefcase. In it you have packed your thoughts and an album of everything you want to find in your future. Before you start walking to your future, remember everything in the briefcase are your dreams. You need to start acting like you have already got there, Who would you socialise with? What would you wear? How would you walk? How would you talk? What would you eat? How would you answer the phone? Start doing all these things they will not cost you a penny. Start walking into your future!


Tip- Time is your new best friend, value it!


The rich and the poor both have 24hrs a day, its up to you to use it wisely. Whatever is in your briefcase,


Think = Feel = Act


You will definitely get results. This technique works in every area of your life. Relationships, career, business, family, happiness, money etc. There are lots of positive thinking techniques that you can add to it to achieve your goals.


Tip- Play to win not to loose.


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Your happiness doesn’t depend on anyone or anything… It’s up to you.





When you look deeply into the nature of this thing called life and begin to understand what life is and the way the mind works, you will come to realize that in fact your happiness does not depend on any outside circumstances, events or people. This is the core realization. This is the heart of this understanding. When things begin to fall apart and then you begin to see what’s really going on, you will discover that the happiness you seek is an internal event, an internal experience. And that this internal experience has nothing to do with all the things you were programmed to believe your happiness depended on! And this is why I say this is the good news… because it means you’re free! You are free! Your happiness doesn’t depend on anyone or anything… It’s up to you. And there is something you can do about it!



Barbara Berger


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Why Some Men Have Dogs And Not Wives.



1. The later you are, the more excited your dogs are to see you.

2. Dogs don’t notice if you call them by another dog’s name.

3. Dogs like it if you leave a lot of things on the floor.

4. A dog’s parents never visit.

5. Dogs agree that you have to raise your voice to get your point across.

6. You never have to wait for a dog; they’re ready to go 24 hours a day.

7. Dogs find you amusing when you’re drunk.

8. Dogs like to go hunting and fishing.

9. A dog will not wake you up at night to ask, “If I died, would you get another dog?”

10. If a dog has babies, you can put an ad in the paper and give them away.

11. A dog will let you put a studded collar on it without calling you a pervert.

12. If a dog smells another dog on you, they don’t get mad. They just think it’s interesting.

13. Dogs like to ride in the back of a pickup truck.

And last, but not least:

14. If a dog leaves, it won’t take half of your stuff.


That’s funny, but I’ll still choose a woman over a dog. How about you? Leave a comment.


Option A



Option B





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We are often too close to something or someone that we are unable to see the mistakes that they make. We as parents often suffer with this form of selective blindness when it comes to our own children or family. We see what we want to see and ignore or fail to notice things that could cause a major disaster if left unattended.

We also have the ability to amplify certain minor things to disaster proportions. You are usually not disappointed if you become “flaws focused”. I have met many people that just do not want to see the reality of a person or situation. I have seen many neglected parents that fail to see that their children have lost all their compassion or loyalty towards them.

I have seen many abused wives that fail to understand or become aware of the monster behaviour of their spouses. I have seen millions of people that selectively see what their politicians do. They fail to see their broken promises and that things are getting worse by the day. I have seen small business owners that fail to see that they are getting nowhere fast because of their inability to manage their time and money.

What you decide to focus on will become visible to you. If you think that you are a failure even your smallest mistakes will seem like monsters in your mind. If you think that your partner is cheating on you, you will see fraud in every thing they say or do. Can you see how you switch what you think must be visible and invisible on and off in your life? Can you also understand how you are paralyzing your potential by not managing this ability properly?

I say ability because you can also use this ability to your advantage. The moment you learn that what you focus on will become a reality in your life, your life will change. When you put your focus on what need to be done it will get done. If you focus on your relationship and decide that you want it to succeed you are well on your way to success. Winners focus on worthwhile things while losers remain focused on what could have been. Winners tend to focus on solutions while losers focus on problems.


Once you become focused, you also become productive. I must however qualify the word focus. I should add positively focused, because if you are negatively focused the positive in your life will become invisible to you. I mentioned earlier that you tend to erase or make invisible what you want to avoid. If you want to see the bad in a person, you usually erase all the good that that person has done for you. The opposite is also true. If you want to forgive a person for what he or she has done to you, you will need to erase his or her wrongdoings or no real forgiveness can take place.

There is thus nothing wrong with the system as long as you use it in a constructive manner. If you failed yesterday, you need to erase the failure and focus on the new opportunities that the new day might bring to you. While you remain focused on your past mistakes no progress can be made and no new opportunities will become visible for you.

You can influence people in a powerful way if you become a master of this method. If you can focus on the potential good in a person, you will always find something worthy in such person. If you view everybody as potential rubbish you will only see and smell the stench of life. Just think of the positive influence you can have on the people that are part of your game of life if you become a person that is positively focused.



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