Daily Archives: September 25, 2015

What if I told you that YOU are reliving the same day over/over again and you are not even aware of it?


We are born and life seems to move forward when we are kids. We learn, we discover, we grow.

However, once we get to a certain age life seems to slow down and we usually get stuck reliving the same “day” over and over again. Until we get very old and realize how fast life went by.

We focus on getting more money so we can have more “mana” for our “superpower” and fulfill our desires.

We try to manipulate things into getting what we always truly wanted, not even being aware of our need to grow. But we learn this is a fool’s errand.

We may even desperately try to help as many people as we can because, for some reason, we feel guilty. Or we may even believe that we need to save the world.

But the world does not need saving. It’s not your responsibility to save the world. You cannot even help others if they do not want to help themselves.

You feel guilty because you are in the eyes of the one who is always watching you, the one who you always degrade and neglect yourself.

And you will instantly forgive yourself when you become honest and admit to yourself what you really need to focus on and do, no matter how selfish that may sound at first.

You will forgive yourself the moment you accept yourself to be enough.

The moment you accept yourself and start growing through your truth, the moment you start learning, discover and grow again is the moment you get unstuck.

No matter if we get everything and if we save everyone, the whole world and The Universe, we will never be enough until we see what we always were.

I know you realize now how you are basically reliving the same “day” over and over again. I am too, buddy, and I am trying to be a little more unstuck every day.

This is not a movie and it takes time to grow, but the moment you will start minding your own business, you will not feel stuck anymore.

Take it easy, one step at a time.

Even starting to learn one thing you always wanted to learn is a great change towards the right direction.

Do something you always wanted to do. Learn something you always wanted to learn. Create something you always wanted to create. Tell someone something you always wanted to tell. Go somewhere you always wanted to go.

That’s when you truly start living.


By Dejan Davchevski /






Leave a comment

Posted by on September 25, 2015 in WISDOM



What have you learned to date? – I’ve learned…that life is tough, but I’m tougher.


I’ve learned…


I’ve learned…that the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

I’ve learned…that when you’re in love, it shows.

I’ve learned…that just one person saying to me, “You’ve made my day!” makes my day.

I’ve learned…that having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

I’ve learned…that being kind is more important than being right.

I’ve learned…that you should never say no to a gift from a child.

I’ve learned…that I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the strength to help him in some other way.

I’ve learned…that no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.

I’ve learned…that sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

I’ve learned…that simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.

I’ve learned…that life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

I’ve learned…that we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask for.

I’ve learned…that money doesn’t buy class.

I’ve learned…that it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

I’ve learned…that under everyone’s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

I’ve learned…that the Lord didn’t do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?

I’ve learned…that to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

I’ve learned…that when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

I’ve learned…that love, not time, heals all wounds.

I’ve learned…that the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.

I’ve learned…that everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

I’ve learned…that there’s nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling their breath on your cheeks.

I’ve learned…that no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I’ve learned…that life is tough, but I’m tougher.

I’ve learned…that opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.

I’ve learned…that when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

I’ve learned…that I wish I could have told my Dad that I love him one more time before he passed away.

I’ve learned…that one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

I’ve learned…that a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

I’ve learned…that I can’t choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.

I’ve learned…that when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you’re hooked for life.

I’ve learned…that everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.

I’ve learned…that it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life threatening situation.

I’ve learned…that the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.


By Andy Rooney


Leave a comment

Posted by on September 25, 2015 in WISDOM


Tags: ,

False tough girl bravado (put your invisible penis away) and be a real woman.


Living and expressing from the heart takes real bravery. It’s the place where you have to bury that false tough girl bravado (put your invisible penis away) and be a real woman (not just a female or a female with a tough attitude) but a woman. Real women live authentically. This is not to say the contrary is a fake woman however the contrary is a female living/thinking in a woman’s body but as a man.

For the past (we’ll say thousands of years) woman’s main fear has come from physical threat. Never so much so until modern times have women been so afraid of the person they look at in the mirror everyday in utter fear of how she truly feels. Expressing her truest self has become even more frightening than dealing with the thought of said feelings. Wait! Does this sound familiar? Kinda sounds like we’re talking about men…


You are constantly being bombarded with fear based statements, tactics, and marketing, every moment that you are in public, in the presence of media, or in the company of modernized women. It shapes your reality and defines your experiences. The truth is, none of it is real! It is all a magnetic energy field growing and attracting to itself more of the same. You “have to” buy this product, you “should” act this way as an independent woman “the financial sky is falling!” you “don’t” need a man in your life.

Nonsense! It’s simply not true…. and you KNOW it!

Sometimes you have to stand up, be bold, and say “ENOUGH already.” If you are like me, you sense that you are more than all of this hype. This feeling shows up as a nagging sense of dissatisfaction. It can feel exhausting, depressing or overwhelming. Bottom line, you simply KNOW something is not right. That knowing is your spirit talking to you. Reminding you WHO YOU ARE. You are not defined by your True Religion Jeans, acrylic french tip nails, LV bag, latest travels, or the degree you hold.

They are not WHO you are. You do not need things to feel good about yourself. You feel good about yourself and have things.

How do you feel good about yourself in the face of such loud noise?

You must allow your spirit to talk to you and you must learn to listen. When listening to your spirit you must be aware of what your heart feels. You are a beautiful, perfect, whole, creation of God. Everything you need is right inside you NOW. Your are just not paying attention. One of my mentors says, “You can pay attention, or you can pay with pain.” It appears that many people today are choosing the pain option. It does not have to continue. You can decide right now to stop the insanity and live from your heart and soul. Here are some tools to get you started.

1) Turn the TV OFF! Sure, you can watch the Bad News if you really must, or a most loved show, however be intentional about your choices. Mute the commercials! Don’t have it on because its quiet. It is the wrong background noise.

2) The background noise of truth comes from your silence. Invest time daily in listening to the pure source energy that is speaking to you.

3) Make every decision from your heart. Every one. If it is not coming from your heart, it’s coming from fear. Check in with your heart all day long!

4) Speak the truth about you… and you alone. If you experience conflict, talk about yourself, not the other person. Ask for what you need. Be honest and open. Give up the manipulation of other people. It weakens you, causing more weakness in the world. The weakness creates a mindset that is more open to fear.

5) Love everyone and everything just as they are. They too are perfect. Perfect where they are just as you are. They may be caught up in the illusion, however they are perfect, so love them.

6) Be grateful for the gifts you receive in the form of judgment. Any unloved behaviors you see in other people are actually unloved parts of you. They have expressed those behaviors to you, as a gift for you to heal yourself. Be grateful for their gift. Look at the things you don’t like that are happening in the world right now, and heal those things within you!

7) Seek refined levels of relating. Analytical responses to heart felt feelings usually cloud communication and confuse the receiver. Realize that in communicating as a feminine woman your goal is to bring yourself and the other person to the fullest potential of an outcome. Understanding is a major portion of refined levels of relating. Understanding does not mean you’ve analyzed the person therefore you understand them. Nor does it mean because you understand the other persons view point you agree with it. Understanding, meaning you get the way they experience their feeling and ideas and their life. Because they’ve expressed things to you and you’ve listened without your judgmental categorical labeling ear you understand. Simply by understanding, you can assist him in overcoming his hurdles, to a place of living from his heart as well. You’ve reache a refined levels of communication. This tool begin to flow on autopilot and before you know it the man that wouldn’t open up is sharing his most intimate thoughts and feelings.

8) When you feel something deep in your heart, in your discerned spirit hold on to it as tight as you possibly can and speak from there. Every-time you feel fear you know you’re moving in the wrong direction.




So why aren’t more of us in great relationships?


Well, in the very distant past (thousands of years ago and beyond), masculine and feminine roles were much simpler to identify and participate in. For example, the men would hunt, and the women would gather. Pretty simple. If you did your part and fulfilled your role, everything was status quo. In those days, with such clear differences between masculine and feminine, it’s safe to say that the natural magnetism between the sexes was much easier to see and feel.

But Dr. Alex tells Christian Carter of Catch Him and Keep Him that in recent years, the new roles of men and women have blurred the boundaries of masculinity and femininity. For example, many women find that taking on a more masculine, driven energy at work helps them achieve more, get praise, move up, etc…. which is great.

But if you come home and interact with a man when you’re still in that “masculine mode”, and he’s also a “masculine” type of man, it can create subtle or even intense conflict.

Remember, when Yin and Yang get together, there’s harmony. But when a woman comes home masculine (Yang), and she interacts with her masculine man (who is also Yang), you get two Yangs… and Dr. Alex says that almost always causes some disharmony and challenge.

Dr. Alex tells Christian Carter and the Catch Him and Keep Him subscribers that the key is to make a conscious choice of WHERE you use each kind of energy. For example, it’s great to be able to shift into a more directed, masculine energy at work… but when you come home, what’s really going to make you feel like a man is there for you and help him satisfy and fulfill you, is if you move into your feminine energy of feeling, sharing and connection.

Of course, a “masculine” single man is also going to feel more connected with you and feel comfortable getting close and affectionate with you when you shift back into your natural feminine energy and allow space for him to take on the more “masculine” role.

Allowing your femininity to express itself is a HUGE attraction turn-on for a man and the more you learn how to do this consciously, the more success you’re going to have at knowing how to draw a man into love and affection with you – and get him out of his head, his work, and all the distractions the world has for you both even when you’re together.




Leave a comment

Posted by on September 25, 2015 in WISDOM



Remember you are not the mistakes that you made.




A man that cannot find enough compassion in his heart to forgive is a fool. We all make mistakes, but the fool continues trying to convince everybody that he is flawless. When you master the art of forgiveness you enter a safe harbour and gain peace of mind. An energy bubble surrounds each one of us. This energy field is charged by your predominant focus at any given moment in time. People can sense when anger, grief or revengeful thoughts are trapped in this energy field. You need to sanitise this invisible energy bubble that accompanies you wherever you go if you want to improve your health or lifestyle. Letting go of the past is a good place to start. The key to a clear energy field is forgiveness. Not only forgiveness of other, but of yourself.

Do not allow your past to hold you at ransom. Forgive yourself unconditionally and get on with the game of life. Even if the mistakes that you made in the past shook the world in its foundations you still need to put them behind you.

Remember you are not the mistakes that you made. You are not your history. Let go of the past or unconditionally accept the current mediocre role or position that you are in. You cannot cross the bridge of life if you continue to keep your one foot on the yesterday’s side of the bridge. If you want to cleanse yourself you will have to forgive yourself unconditionally. You must see past mistakes as stepping-stones. There is nothing you can do about past mistakes and poor choices that you made. Forgive yourself and learn from your mistakes. Be gentle with yourself. Only when you can become your own best friend will you begin to make real progress in life. If you want to forgive a person for what he or she has done to you, you will need to erase his wrongdoings or no real forgiveness can take place.



Leave a comment

Posted by on September 25, 2015 in WISDOM



Five different geniuses, each with a unique gift.




10 interesting facts about the human brain

Leave a comment

Posted by on September 25, 2015 in WISDOM



Mightyman Vukeya

DNS is in my DNA

Chris Brake Show Podcast

LIVE! Every Wednesday @ 8pm Eastern / 7pm Central on


Just another site

Digital Media

Join me here on my crazy techincal journey! Disasters will occur


Just another site

Lama Surya Das

Lama Surya Das, the most highly trained American lama in the Tibetan tradition.

My Life as an Artist (2)

Smile! You’re at the best site ever


A great site

Joseph Matheny : Ong's Hat & ARG Auteur

ars est celare artem | Reality Hacker | Artisanal Legend Crafter | Feral Scholar | Collarless Dog | Gamecaller | Mytho-Poetic Bricoleur | Labyrinthos Mythologicus Architect | Transgressive Storyteller | Caput Gerat Lupinum

My Story of Organized Crime, Organized Stalking, Public/Political Corruption and Domestic Terrorism

Over a decade of organized stalking, extortion, schemes to defraud, racketeering/murder in aid thereof, in colossal proportion.

dianetot's Blog

its all about life,love,passion,desires,truth


Parapsychology is what's beyond the humans and metaphysics is what's beyond nature, and both define the same thing... God.


Défenseur de la Terre/Defender of the Earth

Hathor Rabiah

A new name. A new city. A new life.

Opening Duirs



The Chocolately, Nutty, Interior of my life and Psychology

Celestial Elf, a2ndLook~

Perceptions 0f Reflections ((a backup blog for

Cindi Gale

To every thing there is a season ~

The Sting Of The Scorpion Blog (T.S.O.T.S.B.)

.......................Because Everything Else Just Bites!

Poetry Inspector

Favorites from around the Web

Los Sentidos De La Vida

Un Blog de Cine, Musica, Vinos... En 75 palabras aprox.

My Time is Now

Dancing With The Elderly- A Hollywood Actress's Day Job

let the free birds fly

surviving creating instigating



AshiAkira's Blog

Just another site

diary of a single mom in the south

my life, my love, my story

My Hong Kong Husband

Polish girl married to a Hongkonger, based in Hong Kong


Ramblings from a disturbed mind ©2013 Cho Wan Yau

Middle-Aged Martial Arts Mom

Loving a crippling compulsion....



Just me being curious

A blog of questions and few answers.

I Dont Want To Talk About It

The Ultimate Paradox: Depression in Sobriety

Shepherd Mulwanda

ICT Research Training and Consultancy,Agriculture for Youth Development.

Don Charisma

because anything is possible with Charisma

White Shadows

Story of a white pearl that turned to ashes while waiting for a pheonix to be born inside her !


Trying to make sense of turmoil

Dince's Chronicles

My Personal Blog

Awareness It Self

Quotes for spiritual enjoyment

Doug Does Life

A Creative Monkey On How To Find Your Path In Life.

existence !

blog de philosophie imprévisible, dir. Jean-Paul Galibert

How my heart speaks

My seeings and my thinkings


This site is the bee's knees


Changing Our Mindset is the Imperative and Way Forward

%d bloggers like this: