A survey published in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior, reveals why men and women have sex. The psychologists, David Buss and Cindy Meston of the University of Texas at Austin, found 237 reasons in all. They received many interesting answers. Here are the top 50 answers, both for women and then for men.
Top 50 reasons women have sex:
1. I was attracted to the person.
2. I wanted to experience the physical pleasure.
3. It feels good.
4. I wanted to show my affection to the person.
5. I wanted to express my love for the person.
6. I was sexually aroused and wanted the release.
7. I was “horny.”
8. It’s fun.
9. I realized I was in love.
10. I was “in the heat of the moment.”
11. I wanted to please my partner.
12. I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy).
13. I wanted the pure pleasure.
14. I wanted to achieve an orgasm.
15. It’s exciting, adventurous.
16. I wanted to feel connected to the person.
17. The person’s physical appearance turned me on.
18. It was a romantic setting.
19. The person really desired me.
20. The person made me feel sexy.
21. The person caressed me.
22. It seemed like the natural next step in my relationship.
23. I wanted to become one with another person.
24. It just happened.
25. I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex.
26. I wanted the experience.
27. I wanted the adventure/excitement.
28. The person had an attractive face.
29. The person was a good kisser.
30. I wanted to intensify my relationship.
31. My hormones were out of control.
32. I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions.
33. I wanted to feel loved.
34. The person had a desirable body.
35. I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion.
36. I wanted to communicate at a “deeper” level.
37. I was curious about sex.
38. It was a special occasion.
39. The person was intelligent.
40. I wanted to say “I’ve missed you.”
41. I wanted to keep my partner satisfied.
42. I got “carried away.”
43. The opportunity presented itself.
44. The person had a great sense of humor.
45. I wanted to improve my sexual skills.
46. I was curious about my sexual abilities.
47. The person seemed self-confident.
48. I wanted to make up after a fight.
49. I was drunk.
50. I was turned on by the sexual conversation.