How Love Works – Tom Campbell

15 Jan



Published on Dec 19, 2016

EBTV with host Evita Ochel ( and returning guest Tom Campbell ( in a dialogue about the nature of love, what it really means and how to apply it.

Tom’s Trilogy Book — My Big TOE (

Topics covered in the video include:

1. An explanation of love from an MBT / LCS perspective. (2:25)
– difference between love vs. need
– understanding unconditional love
– how to optimize or destroy the simulation system
– the destructive potential of grouping together
– how fear relates to love
– fear-based tendencies (13:39)
– love-based tendencies (15:05)
– qualities of a love-based life (18:35)
– qualities of a fear-based life (18:57)
– being love vs. acting out love

2. The energy signature and frequency of love in a simulation. (25:29)
– what is Ego and its role in love and fear
– how beliefs sabotage new insight
– fear creates Ego and beliefs
– how to identify Ego
– the 5-step process for becoming love
– the antidote to fear
– the role of observation
– the struggles we face as humans: “a struggle of fear and ignorance, against love and understanding.”

3. Is love a building block or by-product of the simulation? (44:00)
– an explanation of information and entropy
– how to maintain low entropy
– the fundamental nature of love
– how the system allows us to grow into love (51:56)
– the importance of choices in the process of growing up
– what is the most important thing to do to save the world (56:08)

4. Does living based on “other” instead of “self” allow people nearest to us to treat us “poorly” and should we still love them for doing so? (58:23)
– seek low entropy choices for the system as a whole
– abusive relationships = high entropy situations
– being a person of love = more power
– how being a pacifist ties in
– the challenge of practicing discernment (1:13:13)
– morality and the importance of intent in making the right choice
– the importance of taking action even if we are not sure if it is the right choice
– applications to romantic partnerships; will males get walked all over if they are loving (1:21:44)

5. How to deal with opposing views, especially regarding current politics. (1:24:14)
– strategies for handling difficult or negative topics
– letting go of Ego, fear and beliefs
– we need to deal with what is; how we deal with it is what matters

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