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254 YOUR PORTABLE WISDOM GUIDE – It is often what you fail to say that becomes the source of pain.



254. It is often not what you say that causes the problem. It is often what you fail to say that becomes the source of pain. Are you sick and tire of all the compliments that people are handing out to your all the time? When last did you “remember” to express your appreciation for the everyday stuff that friends and family do for you?


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Posted by on March 31, 2017 in WISDOM


It is not how hard you get hit, but how many times you bounce back.



It is imperative to grasp as early as possible that you must believe in your own integrity, value and ability to make a difference. Most of us start life deluded and think that we are and will always be surrounded by individuals that will support us and that will be there for us when things fail to materialise as expected. Some of us discover early in life that real friends are rarer than virgins in a whore house. We discover that our so-called blood brothers and friends vanish like a fart in a thunder storm when things start going wrong for us. We should teach children that life is not fair and that they will more often than not work like a slave and get little or no rewards. Children must understand that life consist out of an endless range of challenges that will come at them like the waves of the ocean. We cannot give our children a bigger gift than the preparation needed to see things as they are (reality). True champions play to win, but also understand that it is silly to expect to win every time they go out to compete. The key to a long and successful career is fortitude. It is not how hard you get hit, but how many times you bounce back. We must train our children to see failure as stepping stones and not disasters. The biggest curse you can put on a child is to create the impression that everything will turn our ok if they try their best. You might be the best talented player that attempt to get into a team at school and still fail to find your name on the final team list. You may have failed to make the cut because a few other players have parents that make big donations to the school and play golf with the coach. The unprepared child is often destroyed long before he or she leave school. Unprepared children become disillusioned and some of them never recover. Look around you or do some research and you will discover that the real successful players in sport and the business world overcame serious adversity during their journey through life. There will be times in your life where you will face very testing times. You will yearn for support and understanding and discover that there is no one that is brave enough or loyal enough to come to your rescue. It is these critical moments, these dark nights of the soul that bring out the best in those with fortitude, courage and determination. Some of us understand that disaster can strike at any moment. We do not fear setbacks and disasters because we know that we can like so many times before overcome anything. Winners and true champions can get up and immediately start building on a new dream and a more exciting goal. The magic ingredient that so many lack in life is staying power and determination. This is the biggest blessing you can pass onto your children. The best way my friend to do this is to lead by example. Show your children that you are strong and courageous in the face of adversity.




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Posted by on March 31, 2017 in WISDOM


Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu Chapter 21, How do I know where creation comes from?

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Posted by on March 30, 2017 in WISDOM


253 YOUR PORTABLE WISDOM GUIDE – It is not all the functional parts in a plane that brings it down.



253. It is often not what we do that holds us back in life, but rather what we fail to do. If you are disorganised you will be late for appointments. If you take things and people for granted you usually lose what you were convince you owned. It is not all the functional parts in a plane that brings it down, but the one defective part that ultimately becomes responsible for a tragic disaster.


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Posted by on March 30, 2017 in WISDOM


That friendly politician might not care a fu*k about you, your future or your family.

Life's Journey



The most powerful way to develop your self-confidence is to stop looking at life through a “pink” filter system. You must see people, family, friends, strangers, business and religion in a realistic and stripped down manner. The first thing you need to do is to answer a very simple question. The question is – what is the real intention (agenda) of this person or institution? You need to dig deeper and uncover the real agendas and intentions, not the often bullshit masks and camouflage presented as bait. They for example might not really care as much as you think they do about saving your soul. Their real intention might be your money or the free hours you will spend “selling” their cause (books or ideologies etc.). That friendly politician might not care a fuck about you, your future or your family, but will tell you whatever you will be prepared to swallow to get your vote. I don’t want you to become paranoid and see a conspiracy in every shadow. All I am suggesting is that you make it your business to find the source reasons why a person, company etc. is attempting to connect with you or sustain their connection with you. You might think that this guy is buying you flowers and sending you romantic message on your phone because of your wonderful personality and blue eye. His only goal might be to get you into bed and chalk up one more victory in the pecker department. Awareness is the key to success. Ask questions and probe until you fully understand what or who you are dealing with. We need to become realistic if we want to uncover why we often end up the victim. The following might sound cynical, but you do not really have a massive supply of true friends that will die for you. Most friendships and for that matter even relationships are built on a parasitic* foundation. People feed from each other emotionally, physically and socially. You will often be dropped like a hot potato once you are depleted of whatever a person was feeding on. Set yourself free by expecting nothing from nobody. Appreciate life and your relationships on a moment to moment basis.






Usually, although parasites harm their hosts, it is in the parasite’s best interest not to kill the host, because it relies on the host’s body and body functions, such as digestion or blood circulation, to live.



Erotic Telepathy - What is telepathic attraction? A weird sensation that is difficult to put into words, an uncontrollable instinct with no logic.


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Posted by on March 30, 2017 in 21 AND OLDER, WISDOM


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252 YOUR PORTABLE WISDOM GUIDE – There is no need to compromise your values/principles.



252. It is of vital importance that you decide what is important (valuable) to you in life. You need to work on what you value in life or you will run out of steam. It might be a good idea to also work on ways you can accommodate people with opposite value systems than your own. Only the less informed thinks that they can go through life demanding that everybody adopt their value system. There is no need to compromise your values and principles and give way to such domineering individuals.


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Posted by on March 29, 2017 in WISDOM


Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu Chapter 20, I alone am dark.

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Posted by on March 29, 2017 in WISDOM

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