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Happiness is not the adding of things or the obtaining of things.



Recall the image above the next time you feel unhappy about anything. Happiness is not the adding of things or the obtaining of things. Happiness is not gaining the approval of someone and it is also not something you feel when you finally reached your goal. Happiness is a ridding process. It is the removing of false perception and expectation. Peel away your false expectation and start enjoying your journey through life on step at a time. Make each moment your happy moment. It is futile to look at outside sources for your happiness. Happiness can not enter your mind and heart when you have endless barriers like grudges, fear, guilt and judgements that block the inflow of success and fun. How can you play the game of life and act like a victim? You will be unable to notice the endless opportunities to embrace love and happiness while you remain stuck in your history and feel sorry for yourself. Your path to recovery and success can start this very moment. Let go of what could or should have been.  




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It’s not someone else’s job to love us. It is our job!

Obsessed with couple relationships?




Everyone seems to be obsessed with couple relationships – have you noticed? People who don’t have a partner are obsessed with trying to find a partner, people who do have partners are obsessed with what’s wrong with their partners and their relationships, and the people who are on their way out of relationships are already worrying about finding the next partner and the next relationship! It’s a veritable zoo out there (and in most of our heads) …


So what’s this obsession really all about? Well as far as I can see it’s all about feeling that wonderful, amazing feeling of love which arises for a very short period of time when someone looks upon you with the eyes of love. And yes, that is a very heady, intoxicating experience … but if you’ve noticed … it doesn’t last very long because after that first very exciting “falling in love” phase, “reality” sets in and you start to notice who this person really is and the other person starts to notice who you really are, etc. etc. etc. And then after that, it’s all downhill. Because no one can live up to the unbelievable and unrealistic expectations people have today when it comes to relationships. And so it goes – with the uphill battle of getting out of an unsatisfying relationship until the next moment of intoxicating “truly, madly, deeply” arises. And then we start all over again, thinking “this is it” for a little while at least …


But here’s the rub and here’s why it never works: The reality is it’s not someone else’s job to love us so much that we get a taste of our own “divinity”. It’s not someone else’s job to love us so “truly, madly, deeply” that we are intoxicated with life, it’s OUR JOB! It’s our job to get so in alignment with Life, with who we really are that we become intoxicated with living and dancing and singing and walking in nature because that’s who we truly are and because that’s our true nature and because Life itself is intoxicating, wonderful, beautiful and divine.


But sadly, we’ve been programmed from an early age to believe our happiness, our worthiness, and our very right to be and exist depends on the love and approval of others … and therein lies the problem.  And therein also lies the task before us … the task of reclaiming ourselves and the beauty of who we really are. And the job of enjoying Life because it’s ours and because it’s a magical gift that each one of has been blessed with. And this doesn’t mean we can’t and won’t have relationships, but they will be based on a common sharing of each other’s own beauty and divinity and uniqueness instead of that horrible, terrible, painful “I need you so I can feel alive and happy” crap! 


And so … if this is true (and it is), how can we regain contact with who we truly are, be ourselves honestly and authentically, and live joyously in the present moment, regardless of our partnership status?


Barbara and Tim




Inner Compass – Sneak peak from BARBARA BERGER’S new book.

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Expectation if wrongly used can destroy you.




Conman use greed, fear and anticipation to influence their victims. We often read how intelligent and rational people are conned into fantasy investments. Their greed and “something for nothing” attitude blind them and put their ability to think in a rational and objective manner on hold. Expectation is a powerful tool. Expectation if wrongly used can destroy you.


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