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How the MEDIA Influence You – SUBLIMINAL ADVERTISING / MESSAGES / PERSUASION

 

 
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Subliminal perception/persuasion, You are not a remote controlled appliance.

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IF WE ARE CONTINUALLY REACHING OUT TO OTHERS TO SATISFY SOME LACK WITHIN OURSELVES, WE LOSE OUR BALANCE. IF WE CONSTANTLY WITHDRAW BECAUSE OF FEAR, WE TOPPLE BACKWARD IN A STATE OF RIGIDITY. LIFE IS ALL ABOUT KEEPING YOUR BALANCE

 

What other people fail to do or say causes some of the biggest problems that we experience in relationships. You can be seriously rattled or thrown off balance when you desire the recognition of a person important to you and he or she fails to satisfy this need. You might yearn for reassuring words from your lover and wait in vain. You might wait for the ego boosting words of acknowledgement from your boss and think that you have lost your hearing. You might hope that your son or daughter will finally show a sign that he or she appreciates what you are doing for him or her and wait in vain.

When people fail to do what we hope or expect them to do they often shake our inner worlds and throw us off balance. Our dependency on others to feed our emotional inner hunger or thirst makes us extremely vulnerable. When we become dependent on a person for “ego food” we are handing such person a control mechanism. You are handing this person a remove control that he or she can use to “regulate” your moods and self-esteem.

This disposition allows the person that holds the remote to make you laugh and cry on command. The more remotes you hand out to friends, lovers and family the less control you have of your own destiny. A remote like this in the hands of a “wrong” person can make your life very unpredictable and seriously complicated. Most of us boast that we are in full control of our lives, but on closer inspection we soon discover how family, friends and people at the office are abusing the remote controls that you allocated to them.

 

You may have hoped that the person that you handed a remote will wear out the “I love you” or “I need you button” and discover that he or she suffers with a phobia about buttons, remotes and commitment in general.

 

I WILL BE VERY CAREFUL IN HANDING OUT REMOTE CONTROLS. I UNDERSTAND THAT I AM HANDING OUT A CONTROL MECHANISM THAT CAN ENHANCE ME OR MAKE MY LIFE VERY UNPLEASANT

 

We often forget that we have an overriding mechanism and can never be forced by anybody to do or feel anything. We are setting ourselves up for failure when we allow the remote signals of people to automatically influence us.

Life is not a popularity contest. We will never please all the people all the time. We often feel that our lives and careers will grind to a halt if we do not get the “right” signals from specific influential people. We often put ourselves through the fire when we wait in vain for desired signals from our friends, bosses or lovers. We must be strong enough to remain happy, productive and mobile without feeding off the signals of the key people in our lives. Some of these key people might be to busy or self-absorbed to even realise that you are waiting for their approval and positive strokes.

 

What you need to tell yourself is that you will make it with or without the positive strokes and emotional support of others. What they do or fail to do should never change who you know you are. True leaders are leaders not because they are popular, but because they do the right thing at the right moment. Some of the choices we make might not make everybody happy that are connected to us, but they will just have to learn to live with it.

The time has come for you to understand that you are not a remote controlled appliance. You are your own person and must make your decisions regardless who presses what button. Take back control today and begin to live a free and fun filled life. If you can remain relaxed and stable without ongoing outside stimulation you are well on you way to success and peace of mind.

Rene

 
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