Daily Archives: January 17, 2018

Pause for a moment before you frantically start swimming upstream.


A person with a judgmental attitude displays the tendency to react to most choices on a defensive basis. Questions like “Will this work?”, “Do I need this right now in my life?”, “What is he or she trying to do to me?” and “What can go wrong here?” comes to mind. Feelings of discomfort, irritation, pessimism, anxiety, conspiracy often warps his or her judgment. This person’s fear of loss, failure or that he might make a fool of him/herself force this him or her to go against the flow of events. He or she will find all the possible reasons why a project has little or no chance of success. It is thus important to detect the above feelings and emotions as soon as possible. Pause for a moment before you frantically start swimming upstream. A person with a judgmental mindset minimizes his or her chances of success and removes the possibility that he or she will reach his or her selected goals and objectives. Judgmental individuals are thus predominantly on the defensive will the individuals with a student attitude remain flexible and adaptable. Keep the above in mind the next time you experience any of the indicated feelings and emotions presented above. You are swimming upstream my friend and might currently be your own worst enemy. 


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Nothing in life is easy. If you really want something, then fight for it.



Please pause for a moment when you notice the “PAUSE” request before you continue. Think how what you just read can assist you with a specific set of circumstances that you are faced with. Think what changes can come about if you applied what you learned here in your relationships, work or with your family and friends. You will be astounded how much value you get from the material when you PAUSE for a few moments, take a small break and apply what I requested above. Do you have a train or bus to catch or do you tend to rush through life with your eyes so fixed on the potential outcomes that you forget to enjoy the journey?


An energy bubble surrounds each one of us. This energy field is charged by your predominant focus at any given moment in time. People can sense when anger, grief or revengeful thoughts are trapped in this energy field. You need to sanitise this invisible energy bubble that accompanies you wherever you go if you want to improve your health or lifestyle. Letting go of the past is a good place to start. The key to a clear energy field is forgiveness. Not only forgiveness of others, but of yourself.


Anticipation is a powerful force. Never show all your cards while the game is still in progress. The game of life is like a chess game. You must mentally always be a few moves ahead of your opponents.


Anticipation is vital to your survival. If you fail to anticipate what the implications of a current action or decision could be, you are putting yourself at great risk. The wise man reads people and events and anticipates their next few moves. He is not paranoid, but vigilant and wise.


Anticipation is what fuels the champions of life. If you lose your ability to dream, you lose your zest for life. If all your anticipation is suddenly removed, you will go into shock. Most people do not only anticipate the future, but also make the mistake of mentally living there. Anticipate the future, but live in the now if you want to experience true happiness.


Appear uncertain if you need other’s support, compassion and understanding. Ask for assistance in a clear and precise manner. Tell it like it is. Why continue hiding behind masks and facades? Get your ego out of the way and reveal your needs in an open and sincere manner. What is the worst that can happen? You have nothing to lose, but everything to gain.


Appreciation is the key to understanding. Only when we learn to appreciate what we have will more value be added to our lives. Gratitude and appreciation are the two most neglected emotions in society today. You can never be happy or achieve piece of mind if you lack these vital components.


Are you a person that enjoys making an issue out of everything? When you oppose something, you stop the natural flow of things. When you continually question and dig for potential flaws it usually disturbs the natural rhythm and flow of events. You need to find a balance between being a pain in the backside and a people pleaser.


Ask for reconsideration when things fail to work out as anticipated. Any softening in judgement will be a bonus. Any drop in price will put money in your pocket. Only the less informed will walk away without giving it his best shot. Nothing in life is easy. If you really want something, then fight for it.


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