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How Love Works – Tom Campbell

 

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Published on Dec 19, 2016

EBTV with host Evita Ochel (http://www.evitaochel.com) and returning guest Tom Campbell (https://www.my-big-toe.com/) in a dialogue about the nature of love, what it really means and how to apply it.

Tom’s Trilogy Book — My Big TOE (http://amzn.to/2i6zjXN)

Topics covered in the video include:

1. An explanation of love from an MBT / LCS perspective. (2:25)
– difference between love vs. need
– understanding unconditional love
– how to optimize or destroy the simulation system
– the destructive potential of grouping together
– how fear relates to love
– fear-based tendencies (13:39)
– love-based tendencies (15:05)
– qualities of a love-based life (18:35)
– qualities of a fear-based life (18:57)
– being love vs. acting out love

2. The energy signature and frequency of love in a simulation. (25:29)
– what is Ego and its role in love and fear
– how beliefs sabotage new insight
– fear creates Ego and beliefs
– how to identify Ego
– the 5-step process for becoming love
– the antidote to fear
– the role of observation
– the struggles we face as humans: “a struggle of fear and ignorance, against love and understanding.”

3. Is love a building block or by-product of the simulation? (44:00)
– an explanation of information and entropy
– how to maintain low entropy
– the fundamental nature of love
– how the system allows us to grow into love (51:56)
– the importance of choices in the process of growing up
– what is the most important thing to do to save the world (56:08)

4. Does living based on “other” instead of “self” allow people nearest to us to treat us “poorly” and should we still love them for doing so? (58:23)
– seek low entropy choices for the system as a whole
– abusive relationships = high entropy situations
– being a person of love = more power
– how being a pacifist ties in
– the challenge of practicing discernment (1:13:13)
– morality and the importance of intent in making the right choice
– the importance of taking action even if we are not sure if it is the right choice
– applications to romantic partnerships; will males get walked all over if they are loving (1:21:44)

5. How to deal with opposing views, especially regarding current politics. (1:24:14)
– strategies for handling difficult or negative topics
– letting go of Ego, fear and beliefs
– we need to deal with what is; how we deal with it is what matters

 
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Posted by on January 15, 2017 in WISDOM

 

192 YOUR PORTABLE WISDOM GUIDE – You are what you think.

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192. Happiness and success is always just one thought away. You should remember when you find it difficult to cope that one thought could change your life. One fresh thought and one new idea can change your life from pain and suffering to success and peace of mind. You are what you think. Your choices that you make on a moment-to-moment basis decide your fate and future. You can never feel or perform better than the ongoing thoughts that you allow to occupy your mind!

Rene

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BREAKING NEWS – Millions of people are stuck in the past.

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In the late 1960s to the early 1970s when I was a youth, I belonged to a very strict religious organization that prophesized the imminent return of Christ, and the destruction of the United States. I put off pleasure in the present because I hoped to enjoy it in the indefinite future. In other words, I got stuck in the future.

Since that time, I discovered that others in the world are doing the same thing. It’s my guess that many young people who join the Islamic State adhere to that future orientation. Their goal is to go to Muslim Heaven, if they are male, and enjoy the pleasures of seventy-two dark-eyed virgins. Suffering hardship in the present and acting as suicide bombers in fighting for ISIS guarantees them eternal bliss in the future.

Having taught classes to American teens has shown me that a fair number of my students were caught in what one book called the “intense present.” The future was not important to them. Instead, it was more important to live life full-tilt in the now. Their present focus often meant they were extreme risk-takers, indulging their passions in illicit drugs, sex, driving, and other extreme behaviors, with no thought for the consequences in five to ten years. These students were stuck in the present.

Millions of people also get stuck in the past, wishing for a bygone golden era where everyone was more moral and upright than they are today. I’m reminded of a Doonesbury cartoon of an American soldier riding in a military truck in Iraq with a Shia soldier. The Shia soldier talked about his hatred for Sunni Muslims. His memories harken back to the year 661 A.D., when some Sunnis murdered the Shia caliph, Ali. That historic hatred still required retribution in the 21st century in that Iraqi’s eyes.

MindTrip MagazineI also see this fixation with the past during this holiday season, when many people get so caught up with pleasant memories of their childhoods at Christmas. It becomes a time of frantic energy to get all the things done: Baking cookies, decorating the house inside and out, writing Christmas cards, and buying presents. By the time Christmas arrives, these devotees of the past are either exhausted, or depressed, or both. Those who live with these “stuck-in-the-past fanatics” are just hoping Christmas would be over, so their loved one could come back to a more balanced perspective.

Over 3,000 years ago, King Solomon noted this human tendency in the Complete Jewish Bible version of Ecclesiastes 7:10: “Don’t ask why the old days were better than now, because that is a foolish question.”

Wisdom tells us we must come to recognize which orientation we are obsessing on, whether it is the past, the present, or the future.

As you can observe, it is our nature to go to extremes, and to get stuck in one time period or another. In doing so, we miss out on the opportunity to live our lives to the fullest in the present, while drawing on experience from past lessons, and thinking long-term about how we can make the future happier.

J.R.R. Tolkien said it best through the words of Frodo in “The Fellowship of the Ring”: “I wish it need not have happened in my time,” said Frodo. “So do I”, said Gandalf, “and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”

Perhaps it is the hour to realize that being fluid and balanced with our time orientation is the best way to be. It’s time to get unstuck.

By Richard Elfers / The Courier-Herald

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Posted by on January 14, 2017 in WISDOM

 

191 YOUR PORTABLE WISDOM GUIDE – You cannot recall/modify words after they left your lips.

Nature at its best Photographs – Stunning Mind Blowing

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191. Guard what you say about people behind their backs. Words are like boomerangs and tend to return and hit you in the mouth. You cannot recall or modify words after they left your lips.

Rene

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Nature share her abundance with everyone and everything.

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THE RAINBOW

My mood was cold, dark, and directionless. My tortured mind was filled with thoughts of missed opportunities and broken promises.

 

The cutting wind on my unshaven face made my eyes water and drove the dark clouds of depression into my shattered soul.

 

The years slipped by like fleeting dreams. Moments of joy and victory came and vanished like the waves of the ocean bashed on the black rocks of sadness.

 

I looked up and noticed the sheets of rain that endlessly poured its gift of life and growth in all directions.

 

A thought darted into my tired defeated mind. I suddenly noticed how nature shares her abundance with everyone and everything.

 

Mother Nature is not selective when she sends gifts of rain and sunshine to feed, nourish and rejuvenate everything with a smattering of life at their core.

 

These gifts of life are given to the seeds that are still sleeping in the soil. The dark scorched earth will soon put on a new coat of colour and in turn pass on these gifts of life to the bees, birds and everything else that waited patiently on Mother Nature to return as she has done since the beginning of time.

 

I suddenly understood that it is mankind’s inability to give unconditionally that is responsible for the inequality that drips off this planet like black wax from a candle.

 

Our homes are filled to the brim with stuff, but we want more, better, faster and the latest. Something inside us drives us like a hungry pack of wolves forward in our quest to feed our greedy ego.

 

There is no time for compassion in our busy lives. Poverty stares at us on every corner, but we are so obsessed with our own little world that we never notice that cold and hungry child on the corner of the street or a mother that worked her hands to the bone to serve us where we sit in our artificial castles sipping our wine of success.

 

The clouds of gloominess gradually lifted from my bowed shoulders. I knew what Mother Nature came to teach me in this dark night of my soul. She came to teach me about compassion and gratitude. She showed me that I must learn to give unconditionally and abundantly if I want to make a contribution to life on this planet.

 

I noticed that the sun began to break through the clouds announcing that the rain moved on to go and do some more teaching down the road. A rainbow suddenly appeared on the horizon. I slowly got up, wiped the water from my face, pushed back my shoulders with new hope in my heart against the backdrop of the singing of the birds that were thanking Mother Nature in advance for the new gifts that she will bring the next time she pays us a visit. She will like before pour her gifts on the rich and the poor, on those that have in abundance and those that have virtually nothing. She deposits her gifts on everyone regardless of their status, race or career and knows that a time will come when mankind has evolved enough to grasp that we are one and an extension of her.

Rene

 

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Posted by on January 12, 2017 in WISDOM

 

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