THE A-B-C OF SUCCESS – C

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Courage	Winners push back their fear and venture outside their comfort zone everyday. Courage is the key to success and problem management. When you walk tall and make a stand when others get cold feet you become a leader. Everybody, including champions experience fear, but winners walk through these emotions and do what needs to be done. Champions walk forward notwithstanding their fears and live their dreams. Losers find excuses for their cowardice.
Cycles	Everything in life works in cycles. You need to learn when to conclude cycles if you really want to become a champion. When you sustain cycles that poison you, you are building disappointment into your dreams and goals. When something is over then it is over and should not be kept alive artificially. Unfinished cycles clutter your mind and prevent you to act in a positive and constructive manner.
Communication	Communication is vital if you want to make a success of project, relationships and your career. You need to communicate to others exactly what you feel if you want to avoid speculation and confusion. Remember when in doubt start asking questions or you will make a fool of yourself. Learn when to speak up and when to suspend talking. The ability to listen must be the most important tool when it comes to the art of communication.
Cause and effect	Everything in life works on a cause and effect basis. This principle is a key to success in everything that you will ever do. Every action that you take will have an equal reaction. The more “right” things you do the more successful you will become in everything that you will ever involve yourself with. What you give out you usually also get back. Give yourself the best chance of success by making sure of the quality of all your actions and reactions.
Critical moments	We are often confronted with special moments where the decision we make or action we take could alter our destiny forever. It is very important to allow yourself enough time to do a proper evaluation of the information or situation before you make a decision. Impulsive decisions are usually paid for later in time, money and frustration.
Care	There is nothing that will open more doors for you than unconditional care for others. We are living in a world where people just do really care about the needs of others any more. When you change from a taker to a giver you will win the hearts and minds of many people. You must also be careful not to allow your caring attitude to lead to abuse by others. People often see a caring attitude as a weakness and begin to take your for granted.

 

THE A-B-C OF SUCCESS – C

C
Courage	Winners push back their fear and venture outside their comfort zone everyday. Courage is the key to success and problem management. When you walk tall and make a stand when others get cold feet you become a leader. Everybody, including champions experience fear, but winners walk through these emotions and do what needs to be done. Champions walk forward notwithstanding their fears and live their dreams. Losers find excuses for their cowardice.
Cycles	Everything in life works in cycles. You need to learn when to conclude cycles if you really want to become a champion. When you sustain cycles that poison you, you are building disappointment into your dreams and goals. When something is over then it is over and should not be kept alive artificially. Unfinished cycles clutter your mind and prevent you to act in a positive and constructive manner.
Communication	Communication is vital if you want to make a success of project, relationships and your career. You need to communicate to others exactly what you feel if you want to avoid speculation and confusion. Remember when in doubt start asking questions or you will make a fool of yourself. Learn when to speak up and when to suspend talking. The ability to listen must be the most important tool when it comes to the art of communication.
Cause and effect	Everything in life works on a cause and effect basis. This principle is a key to success in everything that you will ever do. Every action that you take will have an equal reaction. The more “right” things you do the more successful you will become in everything that you will ever involve yourself with. What you give out you usually also get back. Give yourself the best chance of success by making sure of the quality of all your actions and reactions.
Critical moments	We are often confronted with special moments where the decision we make or action we take could alter our destiny forever. It is very important to allow yourself enough time to do a proper evaluation of the information or situation before you make a decision. Impulsive decisions are usually paid for later in time, money and frustration.
Care	There is nothing that will open more doors for you than unconditional care for others. We are living in a world where people just do really care about the needs of others any more. When you change from a taker to a giver you will win the hearts and minds of many people. You must also be careful not to allow your caring attitude to lead to abuse by others. People often see a caring attitude as a weakness and begin to take your for granted.

 

Champions also experience fear, but they have that little something that override their fear.

It is mind blowing to see what hardship and distress some of us need to go through before we wake up to the fact that we are trapped in a state of NON-ACTION by our fear. How many of our relationships must be destroyed by our inability to do what need to be done or say what we desire to say before we grab resistance by the throat. We resist our feelings in our relationships because our partner might gain the upper hand or get the wrong impression of us. A person or partner treat us like shit and we just stand there and bite our tongues. We are too afraid to take drastic and sustained action because we are afraid that he or she might leave us. We remain in a toxic relationship because we are afraid that we might end up lonely in a flat with only a big fat cat and a canary to keep us company. We yearn for success, money and affluence, but do little or nothing that can move us towards our desires and dreams. We are so afraid that we might fail that we remain in a sustained state of hibernation. Many of us want to write a book, play or paint something, but we fail to lift a finger because we allow the fog of resistance to cloud our mind. What are we waiting for? Who do we think will come and rescue us or break down the door to come and give us a job or show us that we are worthy? The fog of resistance clouds our judgement and ability to walk tall and play to win. This feeling or force that kept many of us prisoner since early childhood has no power to bind us. We are its power source. It feeds off our fear of failing or getting hurt. It is recharged every time we allow doubt to clasp its slimy cold fingers around our hearts. Do you know why many outperform us in business, relationships and entrepreneurial ventures? I am sad to report that they have nothing that you don’t have other than the courage to walk forward in the face of adversity. Champions also experience fear, but they have that little something that override their fear. Their hearts are also beating like a drum, but they do what they know needs to be done until the task is completed. The key is to take that first step forward no matter what you are faced with. Then take a second, third and forth step as well. You will soon gather a rhythm of your own while you write that first page of your book or put down that paint on your masterpiece’s canvas. Yes my friend feel the fear and then do what needs to be done anyway.

 

Spend some time today pushing back the resistance that have been blocking you for far too long now. Make a list of stuff that you have been sidestepping for a while now. Take number one on the list and do what needs to be done until you can put a tick (task completed) next to it on your list. Now do the same with number two etc. You will soon be flooded with powerful surges of energy and courage. I will continue this series tomorrow.

 

Rene

 

THE A-B-C OF SUCCESS – C

 

C
Courage	Winners push back their fear and venture outside their comfort zone everyday. Courage is the key to success and problem management. When you walk tall and make a stand when others get cold feet you become a leader. Everybody, including champions experience fear, but winners walk through these emotions and do what needs to be done. Champions walk forward notwithstanding their fears and live their dreams. Losers find excuses for their cowardice.
Cycles	Everything in life works in cycles. You need to learn when to conclude cycles if you really want to become a champion. When you sustain cycles that poison you, you are building disappointment into your dreams and goals. When something is over then it is over and should not be kept alive artificially. Unfinished cycles clutter your mind and prevent you to act in a positive and constructive manner.
Communication	Communication is vital if you want to make a success of project, relationships and your career. You need to communicate to others exactly what you feel if you want to avoid speculation and confusion. Remember when in doubt start asking questions or you will make a fool of yourself. Learn when to speak up and when to suspend talking. The ability to listen must be the most important tool when it comes to the art of communication.
Cause and effect	Everything in life works on a cause and effect basis. This principle is a key to success in everything that you will ever do. Every action that you take will have an equal reaction. The more “right” things you do the more successful you will become in everything that you will ever involve yourself with. What you give out you usually also get back. Give yourself the best chance of success by making sure of the quality of all your actions and reactions.
Critical moments	We are often confronted with special moments where the decision we make or action we take could alter our destiny forever. It is very important to allow yourself enough time to do a proper evaluation of the information or situation before you make a decision. Impulsive decisions are usually paid for later in time, money and frustration.
Care	There is nothing that will open more doors for you than unconditional care for others. We are living in a world where people just do really care about the needs of others any more. When you change from a taker to a giver you will win the hearts and minds of many people. You must also be careful not to allow your caring attitude to lead to abuse by others. People often see a caring attitude as a weakness and begin to take your for granted.