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Life allows you to think as you please, but it always produces for you what you think.

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CREATIVE THOUGHTS

 

You are given the gifts of Gods. You create your reality. Yours is the creative energy that makes your world. There are no limitations to the self except those you believe in.

Think you are well and that all is well with you and nature will read your thoughts and make them true.

 Your thoughts are the tools with which you carve your life story on the substance of the universe. When you choose your thoughts, you choose results.

Life allows you to think as you please, but it always produces for you what you think.

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Posted by on February 11, 2015 in WISDOM

 

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I WILL NOT LOAD PEOPLE WITH EMOTIONAL ACCOUNTS MADE BY THEIR PREDECESSORS!

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IF YOU WANT TO EXERT A POSITIVE INFLUENCE ON OTHERS YOU MUST AVOID MAKING TOO MANY RULES AND REGULATIONS THAT GOVERN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

 

I often find it quite amazing to see how “contracts” expand and grow in relationships, from a single page document to a book the size of a Bible. When two people meet they usually try to establish common ground between them. Both parties often have different reasons why they contemplate a relationship. The man often has a single agenda and that is to get the beautiful blond in bed while the blond may have an objective to find a true friend and soul mate. Because of the obvious different agendas it usually results in a very complicated contract (rules that would govern the relationship) between them.

 

The problem with troubled relationships can usually be traced to the “contract or rules” that govern all activities between the two parties. The more insecure any one or both of the parties, the more complicated and elaborate the agreement becomes. An endless number of rules are built into these unwritten agreements in an attempt to protect one or both parties from emotional injuries. Protection clauses usually form the base of new agreements if one or both parties have a history of previous relationship failures. This is how new relationships become contaminated by the “sins” of predecessors. These contracts do not only play a role in male, female relationships. All relationships have some kind of unwritten rule structure that governs them.

 

If you want to become a person of influence you will have to make it easy for people to be with you. You will make it very difficult or virtually impossible for people to spend time with you if you have unresolved issues or past fears that are still haunting you. People will find it difficult to relax when with you. People with fear in their hearts usually concoct complicated and cumbersome agreements in an attempt to avoid potential emotional injury.

 

I WILL MAKE IT EASY FOR PEOPLE TO BE WITH ME. I WILL NOT LOAD PEOPLE WITH EMOTIONAL ACCOUNTS MADE BY THEIR PREDECESSORS!

 

Individuals that exert positive influence tend to make it easy for people to be with them or to communicate with them. They do not allow complicated agreements to form that make their relationships cumbersome and unpleasant experiences. Their courage and confidence help them to keep their contracts simple and fair. They are usually people that find it easy to forgive. They do not bear grudges or have a tendency to reshuffle the garbage from their past. When they meet new people they attempt not to filter everything they say and do through their historical pain filters. They view each day as a separate event and do not drag years of painful history with them. They are influential because very few people are able to face each day one moment at a time. People find it astounding that they can accept them unconditionally notwithstanding their history and past failures.

They bring out the best in people because they allow them to be the best person they can be at that any given moment in time. They do not judge people on hearsay and rumours. They know that there are always two sides to a story. Why not try to simplify your agreements with people from now on; you might be astounded what difference it will make in their and your own life.

 

Rene

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Posted by on October 20, 2014 in WISDOM

 

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YOU ARE NOT A PUPPET ON A STRING!

 

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Stuff that will have absolutely no negative or destructive impact on the less conservative individual could bring on a heart attack to those that grew up in a deeply religious and conservative community.

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YOU ARE NOT A PUPPET ON A STRING!

 

There was this man sitting in a tiny, hot stinking cell flooded with the odour of excrement and sweat. There was one small window in his cell strategically positioned high up on the outside wall. Solid heavy metal bars guarded this tiny pathetic window. The man looked at the heavy studded grey steel door barely visible in the dim light that came from a single source against the ceiling. He clasped his head with both hands. A sound like that of a seriously wounded animal escaped from his cracked lips and bounced off the dirty walls. His tired and defeated mind returned to the deeply cut groove in his brain as he began to contemplate what happened in the past and what could or should have been if he were blessed not to drink from the bitter cup that he was forced to swallow for more than forty years now. His voice sounded like gravel on a metal roof when it spilled from his lips. All his pain and disappointment merged with the words, “God please show me the way out of this stinking hole.” He tried to think of things that he could promise God if he answered his prayer, but nothing came. He was simply too tired and defeated to bargain with God.

 

A soft light that grew brighter and brighter began to flood his cell. His tired eyes that have not seen daylight for weeks found it difficult to cope. A feeling of peace and tranquillity flooded his tired body and overburdened mind. He lowered his hands and tried to identify what was happening to him. Joy and elation rushed into his head when he concluded that he was busy dying. He fell to his knees and started thanking God for answering his prayer. Death will bring an end to his pain and suffering he thought. It will end the years of torment and anguish that followed him around like a stray dog since birth. He praised God for his wisdom.

 

The bright luminous light started fading in his cell. The darkness of the cell slowly enveloped him. Everything was over just as quickly as it started. Tears started rolling from his cheeks. He jumped up and begged God not to forsake him. He started hitting the concrete wall with his fist while he shouted at the top of his voice, “God am I so useless that you cannot even grant me death?” The pain in his fists calmed him down. He suddenly realised that it is futile to crush the bones of his hands in an attempt to vent his frustration. He turned away from the small window with the bars and returned to his flea infested metal bed. He suddenly noticed something on the bed. It was a peace of paper rolled around something. He picked up the paper and could feel that it contained something heavy and solid. He slowly rolled open the paper and almost fainted when he saw the big solid metal key. He noticed that there was some instruction written on the wrinkled paper. He turned the paper so he could read the instructions in the limited visibility in his cell. All he could make out was.

 

Take this key. Insert it in the keyhole in the heavy metal door. Turn the key twice to the left and regain your partial freedom. It will be partial freedom because you will only gain total freedom when you learn the wisdom of “letting go”.

 

We are all trapped in our own cell in the matrix of life and often feel like the man in the story. We yearn for a reprieve from our daily dose of fear, worry, anxiety and lack. Most of us experience the following while we attempt to make sense of this thing called life.

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We worry about what happened in the past.

We worry what might happen in the future.

We worry about money.

We worry about our health.

We worry about the loyalty of friends and family.

We worry about our work or lack of work.

We worry about our weight.

We worry about crime.

We worry what others think of us.

We worry what we will eat tomorrow.

We worry about the state of affairs in the world.

We worry if we will one day go to heaven when we die.

We worry about the weather.

We worry if we will get that promotion.

We worry about our children.

We worry about our parents.

We worry about global warming.

We worry that we might die too soon or live too long.

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Posted by on October 2, 2014 in WISDOM

 

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We go around with our ignorant swagger and daily judge people without even a basic glimpse of their story and their values.

I found a wonderful and revealing documentary on TV last night that caused me to hang my head in shame. I grew up in Namibia and often came in contact with the Himba tribe. I in my ignorance judged these people and viewed them as primitive and stripped of basic social skills. I must today acknowledge that I in my ignorance and in moments of ego based delusion never knew their story and the solid base that structure this amazing people. We go around with our ignorant swagger and daily judge people etc. without even a basic glimpse of their story and their values. I did it with the Himba people and expanded my judgemental spirit to a wide range of individuals, tribes and nations. I today understand that it is silly and nothing more than an ego trip that we depart on when we judge and condemn anyone. We do not know their story. Not even the story of that man or woman that begs in the street or sleep in their intoxicated dream world next to our roads. Let us suspend our judgement and first gather information before we dare to put anyone in a neat box wrapped in judgement. Read more about this amazing tribe at the link below.

Rene

http://completenamibia.com/Cultures.Himba.htm

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The Ovahimba People Of Namibia

 
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Posted by on March 11, 2014 in WISDOM

 

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I WILL MAKE IT EASY FOR PEOPLE TO BE WITH ME TODAY.

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IF YOU WANT TO EXERT A POSITIVE INFLUENCE ON OTHERS YOU MUST AVOID MAKING TOO MANY RULES AND REGULATIONS THAT GOVERN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

 .

I often find it quite amazing to see how “contracts” expand and grow in relationships, from a single page document to a book the size of a Bible. When two people meet they usually try to establish common ground between them. Both parties often have different reasons why they contemplate a relationship. The man often has a single agenda and that is to get the beautiful blond in bed while the blond may have an objective to find a true friend and soul mate. Because of the obvious different agendas it usually results in a very complicated contract (rules that would govern the relationship) between them.

 

The problem with troubled relationships can usually be traced to the “contract or rules” that govern all activities between the two parties. The more insecure any one or both of the parties, the more complicated and elaborate the agreement becomes. An endless number of rules are built into these unwritten agreements in an attempt to protect one or both parties from emotional injuries. Protection clauses usually form the base of new agreements if one or both parties have a history of previous relationship failures. This is how new relationships become contaminated by the “sins” of predecessors. These contracts do not only play a role in male, female relationships. All relationships have some kind of unwritten rule structure that governs them.

 

If you want to become a person of influence you will have to make it easy for people to be with you. You will make it very difficult or virtually impossible for people to spend time with you if you have unresolved issues or past fears that are still haunting you. People will find it difficult to relax when with you. People with fear in their hearts usually concoct complicated and cumbersome agreements in an attempt to avoid potential emotional injury.

 .

I WILL MAKE IT EASY FOR PEOPLE TO BE WITH ME. I WILL NOT LOAD PEOPLE WITH EMOTIONAL ACCOUNTS MADE BY THEIR PREDECESSORS!

 .

Individuals that exert positive influence tend to make it easy for people to be with them or to communicate with them. They do not allow complicated agreements to form that make their relationships cumbersome and unpleasant experiences. Their courage and confidence help them to keep their contracts simple and fair. They are usually people that find it easy to forgive. They do not bear grudges or have a tendency to reshuffle the garbage from their past. When they meet new people they attempt not to filter everything they say and do through their historical pain filters. They view each day as a separate event and do not drag years of painful history with them. They are influential because very few people are able to face each day one moment at a time. People find it astounding that they can accept them unconditionally notwithstanding their history and past failures.

They bring out the best in people because they allow them to be the best person they can be at that any given moment in time. They do not judge people on hearsay and rumours. They know that there are always two sides to a story. Why not try to simplify your agreements with people from now on; you might be astounded what difference it will make in their and your own life.

Rene

 
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Posted by on January 31, 2014 in WISDOM

 

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We go around with our ignorant swagger and daily judge people without taking a basic glimpse of their story and their values.

I found a wonderful and revealing documentary on TV last night that caused me to hang my head in shame. I grew up in Namibia and often came in contact with the Himba tribe. I in my ignorance judged these people and viewed them as primitive and stripped of basic social skills. I must today acknowledge that I in my ignorance and in moments of ego based delusion never knew their story and the solid base that structure this amazing people. We go around with our ignorant swagger and daily judge people etc. without even a basic glimpse of their story and their values. I did it with the Himba people and expanded my judgemental spirit to a wide range of individuals, tribes and nations. I today understand that it is silly and nothing more than an ego trip that we depart on when we judge and condemn anyone. We do not know their story. Not even the story of that man or woman that begs in the street or sleep in their intoxicated dream world next to our roads. Let us suspend our judgement and first gather information before we dare to put anyone in a neat box wrapped in judgement. Read more about this amazing tribe at the link below.

Rene

http://completenamibia.com/Cultures.Himba.htm

The Ovahimba People Of Namibia

 
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Posted by on December 16, 2013 in WISDOM

 

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The Absence of Desire is the Beginning of Happiness

Let us stop searching for answers and implement a few of the principles we already understand and know. Let us stop looking for new rules, laws and words of wisdom and start using the ones we already know, but never apply!

If you look closely, all your desires are actually like mirages.

An illusion you never get to that makes your life into a never-ending, non-fulfilling story that only keeps you wanting more.

When you’re walking in the desert, and you see the image of a lake, you thirst. You keep walking after the lake, but the more you walk, the more you thirst, the further the lake gets away from you.

And your thirst is never quenched.

This is the same insane madness that most of us live our lives in constantly… constantly wanting something else to be fulfilled. Constantly thinking about an imaginary future that will bring salvation.

This is “normal life”… as it seems.

After all, it’s what your parents taught you to do… It’s what everyone else is doing…

But, essentially, it’s madness! Because you keep going somewhere…and… You never get there!

You have small glimpses of peace, enlightenment, bliss,… “sanity” in between.

Here’s what you may have not noticed before… Eventually when you do get what you want… you are happy for a very brief while.

Why are you happy?

“Because I got what I want!” one might say.

Actually – it’s because for that moment… there is an absence of desire.

When you have no desire… all of a sudden, you’re happy for no reason. (but your mind of course links this to the fact that you achieved your “desired” outcome). In that moment, your mind stops… you are empty, you do not need anything else.

Desire is heavy. Why? Because there is a simple law in the Universe.. “What you focus on expands.” And when you desire… what expands? The assumption that you do not have what you want.

And “not having”… is a very heavy thing. It’s dull, depressing, agony. This is the pressure you feel in your bell right when overwhelming desire for getting something builds. This is the pressure and “blind spot” which actually makes your life a struggle.

The paradox is… when you are desire-less… When you are empty of all desire…

It takes only a single thought to move your life situation in the direction of that thought.

It takes only a single thought, and slight intention behind it…and of course, a little action on your part…

and…

Whatever it is you “wanted”… somehow ends up in your life very shortly. Without the heaviness behind your desires…The Universe unfolds at your feet.

Of course… this can become a trap by itself again… as your mind can “own” this as another concept and begin to play with it, talk about it, find it interesting. Then, begin to use this as just another “fancier” way to “get what I want and keep it”

This is “fake spirituality” 🙂 And eventually leads to your suffering anyway. As you begin attached to everything you bring into your life.

Become desire-less, self-less, attach-less, then you are like the drop of clear water through which the sunlight moves through… And the rainbow appears 🙂

May all beings be free
Kacper M. Postawski
Creator of Swimming In Abundance and Dancing With the Universe

 
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Posted by on December 2, 2013 in WISDOM

 

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