The third universal fear, according to Braden (1997), is the fear to trust and surrender. We have all had our share of unpleasant experiences. When several people have disappointed, failed to keep their promises or betrayed you, you are likely to believe that the world is not a safe place. Very few of us exhibit enough faith to trust in the process of life and therefore, we are reluctant to surrender. We fear the unfamiliar and unknown and therefore, we are inclined to focus on specific outcomes. We would like life to be more predictable. We develop attachments and when something does not work out according to our expectation, we feel disappointed and betrayed. We are inclined to distrust life and develop a fear of surrendering to the events as they unfold. This fear to trust and surrender prevents us from going with the flow and appreciating every situation and as it presents itself. The fear of trusting people, with whom we have established relationships, is also very common. This universal fear may result in an attempt to control a person or an event, as well as the need to develop an attachment or to change a person.
The three universal fears are interrelated and the experience of being rejected by a person may result not only in the fear of separation, but also in the fear of being unworthy and/or the fear to trust or surrender. These fears are very easy to overlook, because they have become so ingrained in our behavior. These fears are often disguised by the different masks we wear and they may manifest in different relationships. We are inclined to intellectualise and justify the social masks we hide behind to cope with the demands of life. It is important to determine what the underlying reasons are for wearing a specific mask. Some of the masks we wear may be based on fears that need to be healed. The time you need for healing is dependent on your willingness to address your universal fears.11 Your specific fears will determine which people and circumstances you draw into your life. It is the people with whom you have developed close and intimate relationships that will push your buttons and provide you with the best opportunities to heal.
THE FUNDAMENTAL DELUSION OF HUMANITY IS TO SUPPOSE THAT I AM HERE AND YOU ARE OUT THERE. THE TRUTH IS YOU ARE NOT SEPARATED FROM ANYTHING EVER. THERE IS NO TIME AND SPACE BETWEEN YOU AND GOD!
SEPARATION IS THE GREAT OPTICAL DELUSION: Albert Einstein called it an optical delusion. Yasutani Roshi, the spiritual teacher, said, “The fundamental delusion of humanity is to suppose that I am here and you are out there.” The truth is you are not separate from anything, ever.
You are never separate from life or from the subatomic unity that makes the mountains, amethysts and stars. When you look at an island some distance from the land you conclude that it is a separate freestanding entity that stands totally on its own. If you however study the lay of the land you soon discover that the mainland and the Iceland is connected with each other. The water creates a delusion that it is a body totally divorced from the mainland.
I mentioned earlier in this series of thoughts that you are an extension of God. When you study the words of Einstein and Roshi you suddenly realise that God is merged with your DNA building blocks and the life force that pulses through your system.
God is not an old man with a bad attitude somewhere up there that scans each individual day and night for flaws and so-called sins. He is the ultimate creator of the universe and you are just one of the manifestations of this creation process.
Separation is the greatest disease of humankind. It is because you believe you are separate and alien to the rest of life that you experience lack, struggle, conflict and pain. There is today no unity left on this planet. People have been conditioned to see themselves as separate entities that stand on their own. Each person is neatly isolated and boxed with his or her own label.
How can you be one with God and fear failure? How can you be one with your spouse and experience fear and rejection? How can you be in tune with nature and destroy it. Many unscrupulous operators in the history of humankind have carefully manipulated this delusion of separateness. The old principle of “divide and rule” has taken its toll on all of us. Politicians and spiritual leaders have broken us up into millions of splinter groups. When the spiritual leaders successfully extracted God from man, woman and child by creating this feeling of partitioning they created a wonderful business for themselves. Part of their sales pitch included services like “path finding”, “mediating” and “bridge building”.
Because us poor idiotic mortals bought the “separation” concept we became willing customers for these operators. When these so-called “spiritual leaders” successfully developed the reward (heaven) or failure (hell) concept they took control of most people’s minds on this planet. Because of the inherent tendency of people to fail and make mistakes the heaven and hell concept worked like magic. Our fear of the unknown and our desire to live make us excellent customers for movements that promote these unfounded principles. Our yearning to re-connect with our God core stolen from us makes us puppets in the hands of the people that created this illusion.
Individuals that dare to question or ask for clarification were and still are threatened with excommunication. The fear to be cast out of the “protective” walls of these institutions stopped most individuals in their tracks. The risk of giving up the potential reward of heaven was just too much to bear. Separation is a feared emotion. Most of us will rather be part of a defective system than no system at all. When you study how individuals have been killed and tortured in the name of religion through the ages you find it difficult to understand why not more people want to investigate the real truth of the matter.
If you want to experience real love, happiness and success you must discard this illusion of separation that you have been sold by these unscrupulous operators. Once you accept that you are one with everything in the universe you loose your fear of isolation.
You are one with every creation on this planet. You are part of that wonderful tree in your garden. You are one with the snow-capped mountain that you often see on postcards. You are special and do not need a special man made communication system if you want to share your thoughts and feelings with your creator. You are not on the outside and must overcome obstacles and horror filled tests to unite with God.
I sometimes feel that the video game creators got their ideas from these principles. You are not a sinner and will be tried and tested in the most inhumane ways to see if you are worthy of some heavenly prize. God will not demand the life of your child to see if you qualify for this heavenly state. He will not expose a vulnerable and fallible entity like you to an endless game of visible and invisible examinations to see if you qualify for a place in his heavenly haven. All this is nothing more than an illusion like I indicted earlier in this document. I am sure that most of these spiritual leaders are not even aware that they are leading you down a path of confusion, a case of the blind leading the blind.
You create your own heaven and hell if you support this separation theory. You will remain in a pain, fear and a rejected state until you accept that you already have what they are trying to sell you. You are already one with God and can change your life to include fun and happiness today if you decided to do so. It is not God that are spoiling your fun or testing you, but it is your own warped thoughts of separation that is causing most of your unhappiness. There is no need to build a bridge because you are already one with and part of your creator.
Rene
EXAMPLE OF LOVE GOD OR GET TOASTED IN THIS CLIP
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A SICK TOXIC PERCEPTION OF GOD CREATED BY THOSE THAT WE HOPED WOULD FEED US SPIRITUAL FOOD WHILE WE ATTEMPT TO MAKE OUR WAY THROUGH THE ENDLESS CHALLENGES WE FACE DAILY!
When most people think about water, they’re thinking about something to drink, or perhaps that hot, steamy and refreshing liquid that funnels out of the showerhead to remove the grit and grime after a long day’s work.
Dr. Masaru Emoto is not one of those people. He believes that water reveals hidden messages and reacts to human thoughts, music, emotions, prayers and written words.
Epiphany Works, an inspired event-planning company that provides forums for enlightening entertainment that is experiential in nature, is responsible for bringing the famed scientist to Cranberry on Sunday, Oct. 2.
The co-founder of Epiphany Works, Gina Hillier, contacted Emoto in hopes of bringing him to the Pittsburgh area to demonstrate his almost incomprehensible beliefs.
“Our goal is basically to show people things they’ve never done before, whether we create it or bring someone in,” Hillier explained.
“Dr. Emoto is one of those such people, and we’re honored to have him visiting. He’s touching a nerve and his message is so simple yet universal, that water has intelligence.
What he basically does is use scientific methods to prove that thoughts change the chemistry of water.”
The well-known Japanese scientist became interested in water at a very young age.
“When I was a child, I learned from my mother that ‘water is a reflection of your soul,'”
Emoto explained
“In remembering that experience, I decided to embark on this current research for and with water.”
Emoto has been on a non-stop quest for two decades and was internationally recognized through his breakthrough film, “What the Bleep Do We Know?” He believes that almost everything is affected by water, including tsunamis and hurricanes on a deeper level than is obvious. He feels that everyone should be learning much more about the importance of water’s impact on everyday life.
“Water is essential to life, but how long have we been ignorant about water? Forever,” Emoto stated. “I don’t think it’s an exaggeration to say that people are really ignorant when it comes to water.”
A few examples of the main questions Emoto feels people should be looking into: Why we can’t live a single day without water? How can water dissolve anything? Why is water the heaviest at 39.2 degrees Fahrenheit?
While these questions can be answered in a scientific fashion, Emoto feels the root of the mystery has not been uncovered in an adequate way.
Emoto points to the fact that NASA has confirmed that all of the water on Earth actually came from outer space in the form of ice comets.
“This information was reported over eight years ago, yet no one takes it seriously,” Emoto said. “This is because if this finding was accepted, all the theories that have been discovered in modern science in the past will be nullified. This is particularly (important) because if this theory is accepted as a fact, then it means that humans really came from outer space.
“Furthermore, this forces our thinking to leave the parameters of science and enter the realm of God or other spiritual reasoning, which is one of the most despised thought process by scientists.”
Another concern of Emoto’s is that the Earth is losing the battle to hold so much water.
He says NASA has concluded that ice comets are about usually 100 tons and nearly 10 million of them hit the earth every year. Due to the influx of water, Emoto predicts many more natural disasters, along with the concern of global warming.
“What I can theorize is that Earth is now acting like a full sponge and can no longer absorb enough water,” Emoto explained.
“I am seriously worried that a part of this Earth really will be consumed by water and disappear, just like in the case of the continents Mu and Atlantis.”
Emoto believes that water is so powerful that it can create havoc merely as a result human thoughts. One of his studies consists of taking photographs of water crystals by two photographers; one who is at peace and another who is agitated.
When the feeling of what Emoto calls “Love and Thanks” was sent to the water, the crystal formation was at its best and the most beautiful. On the other hand, ugly water crystals formed when when negative feelings were sent toward the water.
Part of this research has lead Emoto to the conclusion that humans are responsible for some water-related natural disasters.
“Are modern day people living a life on a daily basis that is full of ‘Love and Thanks’ energy? The answer is no,” Emoto stated.
“We are all immersed in fear and resentment and are living a life that is full of gluttony.”
The renowned water researcher concludes that our water will reflect those feelings and retaliate, possibly wreaking havoc in more areas if people do not come together, live in harmony and respect the water.
Emoto uses Einstein’s theory of relativity, E=mc2 for his water research, believing the ‘m’ represents the number of people and the ‘c’ equals consciousness.
As far as healing powers go, Emoto believes that water has true powers when one realizes that the origin of every phenomenon can be traced back to vibrations.
“Vibration can only travel through water,” Emoto explained. “All illnesses are created when a particular vibration is corrupted. The best way to heal this irregularity is to apply the same irregular frequency vibrational wave pattern so that this relationship will cancel out the bad vibration and condition that followed.”
Due to the fact that humans are made mostly of water, Emoto feels that water has the ability to change things around the world and for mankind because water is a reflection of the soul.
“I believe water is a reflection of all human consciousness,” Emoto said. “Therefore, the current tragedies around the world that are caused by water are a result of the unbalance in the culture, economy and politics.”
The leading water scientist is selling out in almost every city he’s visiting and is attracting a vast amount of people, including medical students and churches. His lecture, “The Power of Water,” is expected to be well attended in Cranberry, his only stop in the Pittsburgh area.
Everyday you make a thousand choices. You choose what to wear, where to go, who to meet, what to eat and what to do. MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL, YOU decide WHAT TO THINK. One thing is sure and that is that your day will not be better than your thoughts. ...................
Just close your eyes for a moment and see if you can visualise this open toolbox and if you can see the hundreds of tools that are neatly placed in this toolbox. Now look if you can see the maker’s name on these tools. The creator of these tools (thoughts and perceptions) is you. You created thousands of thoughts and perceptions (tools) about everything since your childhood. ..................
When confronted with any situation or problem you reach into this toolbox and take out what you think the most appropriate tool would be and then attempt to fix the problem. It is estimated that your mind thinks at least 2,500 thoughts an hour. Every thought that you think is a tool (perception) that you have that you imagine would work best under specific circumstances. This thought process continues day and night and will do so for the rest of your life. .....................................
I am convinced that we think ourselves to a standstill. We never stop playing with these tools in our toolbox and can hardly ever really relax for a while. If we are not faced with a problem or task that needs completion we still continue to take out these tools and mentally rehears and contemplate how we will use them should something that we fear become a reality. ............................
We are forever thinking and scheming and never become still and tranquil inside. Our bodies might seem relaxed, but deep inside our heads this thought process continues churning around. What I am most worried about is that most of the tools that you have in your toolbox are very old and outdated. .......................
Many of the opportunities, problems and obstructions that you face daily cannot be repaired while you are using old and outdated tools. If you take a modern mechanic’s toolbox and you place the toolbox of a mechanic of fifty years ago next to it you will find that there are major discrepancies. When you are confronted with something that needs repair and you do not have the right tool for the task at hand it can be very frustrating. We usually improvise and try using some other tools and hope that it will also get the job done. ........................
When you are faced with a problem you need to select the right tool for the task at hand. If you do not have the tool in your toolbox it can complicate your life. What most people seem to ignore is that it is sometimes better not to reach for your toolbox when faced with a problem. Sometimes you need time to pass or need to leave the problem with its rightful owner. How well you use your tools is usually reflected in the world you see around you. What would you do if you were faced with any or all of the following? .........................
You get a flat tire on your way to an important customer or meeting. You can fall apart, develop a migraine and think that life is against you or you can take out the right tools (patience and reality) and take care of the problem in a relaxed manner. ........................
You have been working on the computer for hours and suddenly lose all your work. You can drop dead with a heart attack; think that God hates you or you can take out the right tool (sanity and reality) and begin over and this time remember to make a backup of your work. ....................
A lover or wife possibly cheated on you. You can go crazy and get an assassin to take out the potential threat to your relationship, think that you are a failure or you can take out the right tool (no fear of loss) and get on with your life. .......................
When you have the right tools in your toolbox it makes life a lot easier. The choices we make are vital in our lives. The more quality choices we make during any given day the higher the probability of success and peace of mind. ................
I suggest that you equip your toolbox with the best tools you can lay your hands on. It is important to upgrade if you discover that one of your tools are outdated or that a more modern version is available. How would you react if your TV packed up and a technician that obviously knows very little about electronics arrived at your house with only a sledgehammer and a few other primitive tools in his toolbox? I am sure that you will send him away and find someone better qualified and equipped for the task. .....................
You might sometimes be like this incompetent and poorly equipped technician indicated above if you do not often update your tools (thoughts) in your toolbox. You can also have all the right tools in your toolbox and never use them because you are afraid that you might make a mistake. ..................
You must remember that happiness and success is always just one thought (tool) away. You should remember when you find it difficult to cope with something that one new tool (thought) could change your life. One fresh thought and one new idea can change your life from pain and suffering to success and peace of mind. ........................
You are today what you were programmed with yesterday. The choices that you make on a moment-to-moment basis decide your fate and future. You can never feel or perform better than the ongoing thoughts and feelings that you allow to occupy your mind! .......................
The mistake we make is that most of us live our lives on a reactive basis. We start and complete our day in a reactive state of being. Something comes to our attention via our five senses or via a thought in our mind. We automatically slip into the “role” that we created for ourselves many moons ago. We act, react and experience the same feelings and emotions that we embedded with our scrip at its inception. We do exactly the same when new stimuli push the previous “drama” off the stage in our minds. We sustain this reactive mode of thinking until we finally go to bed at night. Most of our days are made up of a tapestry of “roles” that we played in our own colorful way. It is important to understand that nothing is going to change until we do something different. We cannot repeat the same old recipes and expect a different outcome. ....................
You can use the “Portable Life Skills Wisdom” book to develop a range of appropriate scripts that you can use when you are faced with a problem or project that need your attention. You will if you apply the scripts in this book find that you no longer run your life on a reactive basis. The new scripts will help you to live your life in the moment. You will become more realistic. You will treat each event on its own merit. How do you do this? ......................
The Process ....................
Read the first message in your book. Write it down if at all possible. It will assist you to absorb the data provided. Now sit back and close your eyes and visualize how you will apply the specific message in the various areas of your life. See yourself on the screen of your mind using the message in all your day-to-day activities. It is important to attempt to feel and experience the benefits that this new mode of thinking will bring into your life. Do this for ten minutes. Then open your eyes and begin to apply the wisdom on all occasions where appropriate in your activities on that given day. ...........................
Proceed to do the same with second message etc. in your book tomorrow. You will upload almost a thousand powerful recipes if you sustain the process indicated above. You can in less than three years upload a powerful “tool” system that will serve you for the rest of your life. This can be a life changing experience if you apply it daily. You will discover that the ten minutes you invest daily will upload countless new strategies into your subconscious computer. Build a successful and happy life. The key however is action. You can have the best tools available to man and still fail if you don’t use them daily. Wishing you the very best with this endeavor. .............................
Daily Support System (This Blog) ................
You not only have the massive key ideas in the book that you can use when appropriate you also receive daily posts on a wide range of subjects that will expand this system to a level never offered before. Visit this blog daily for fresh new ideas with a sprinkle of historical wisdom that stood the test of time. ..........................
Rene
PORTABLE LIFE SKILLS DAILY WISDOM GUIDE 