Many relationships that flush down the toilet have uncontrollable anger in their foundations.

 

 

 

We tend to amplify small problems until they appear like massive disaster zones in our heads. The real damage is not caused by what happen to us, but by the way we react to whatever transpired. I met a sizable number of individuals during my journey through life that can explode with rage after the slightest provocation. A minor comment by anyone can change these individuals into an out of control lunatic. Doors are slammed and stuff is thrown around while they allow utter nonsense to flow from their lips. Nothing they say is weighed. The only way you can get a word in is when they slow down for a moment to breath. What they say is designed to inflict as much pain as possible. Many relationships that flush down the toilet have uncontrollable anger in their foundations. One or both partners in a relationship that suffer with anger management problems can suddenly sink the relationship boat that they travelled on. Irrational behaviour and a lack of composure dumb us down and remove our ability to think in a logical and realistic manner. It is impossible to reason with a person that is foaming at the mouth and banging his or her head on a wall. Reasoning really flies out of the window when the irrational partner starts banging your head against the wall as well. I consulted with many individuals with this kind of problem. I usually get the following answer when I ask them why they stay together if the hate each other enough to cause each other serious bodily harm. They usually then respond with, “I love him (her) that is why I stay with him (her). They usually then look me up and down as if I am some kind of idiot not being able to grasp this simple fact. I would like to suggest any person or couple that experience this problem to see a doctor as soon as possible. The cause of this uncontrollable rage is often some hormone, or brain chemical imbalance that is causing this massive reaction when triggered. There are obviously a wide range of other things that need to be looked at when you are faced with an out of control partner. My dear friend you need to get professional assistance or run for the hills. You cannot remedy an out of control partner by trying harder. Someone can get injured if this issue is not addressed. The biggest victims in these types of relationships are often the children. They usually have no alternatives and nowhere to go.

 

Rene