THE NEXT TIME YOU DISCOVER THAT YOU ARE PROCRASTINATING DO THE FOLLOWING AND HOPE THAT IT WILL GIVE YOU A HARD ENOUGH KICK UP THE BACKSIDE TO MOVE YOU OFF YOUR CHAIR!
I often find it astounding to see how people can “procrastinate” their lives away. There are so many people that have good intentions, but never start their vehicle of life. They sit ready in the racing position, but for some reason not clear to me never start their success vehicles engine. They have the plans; they have the desire, but sit there frozen behind the wheel of their success vehicle and obviously are going nowhere fast. You can have the most powerful racing car, but only when you start your engine and push hard on the petrol pedal will forward movement take place. You can sit behind the wheel of the vehicle of life and pray, medicate or visualize all you like, but will make no progress towards you goals, objectives or desired outcomes until you actually drive off towards your target. You can sit there and blame your company, friends, family or even God for your disposition, but you are ultimately the one that needs to turn the key in the ignition and drive off onto the highway of life.
Procrastination is responsible for poor performance. Procrastination is the killer of dreams. Procrastination destroys potential and keeps you frozen in a state of mediocrity. Try and find any person that achieved anything worthwhile in life that waited and hoped that success would come his or her way. The achievers in life often start their engines and lay down rubber on the highway of life long before their plans and goals are fully formed in their minds. They know that the most difficult part of achieving their goals is not the actual action, but to overcome their fear of failure or pain that keeps the glued in one sport. The champions start their engines early and begin to move in the general direction of their goal or objective long before the smaller details of their plans are worked out or double-checked. They know that adjustments can be made along the way while the fools remains frozen behind their desks. The desk dwellers are experts at justifying their pathetic performance. They are forever waiting for a road map or something else. Any excuse will do as long as they can justify why they are still not moving towards the desired outcome. I have seen educated men and women that suffer with “action anxiety” all my life. Their fear of the unknown or their anxiety to go outside their comfort zones keep them prisoner.
I WILL TODAY FOLLOW THE “JUST DO IT” METHOD. IT WILL IMMEDIATELY START DOING THINGS BEFORE I HAVE TIME TO THINK AND WORRY ABOUT THE 1001 THINGS THAT MIGHT GO WRONG!
Why not try a bit of reverse psychology today. Why not visualise and see what your outcome will be if you fail to take action. Do not justify your lack of action. Simply think of the consequences if you take no action. See how idiotic you look in your frozen position. See how people get a head start on you because of your fear of potential pain. Feel like the coward you are when you allow your fear to override your will to act. Experience the remorse that you will feel when somebody with much less potential than you takes the first prize or get the lucrative deal. Think what your children will think about you when they discover their father or mother is a coward. Think what the love of your life will think if she or he discovers that, you are a coward. Project yourself to your final day on the job and how you will feel when you discover that you wasted half your life waiting and hoping.
The next time something needs to be done, get up and do it immediately and without hesitation. Stop creating monsters in your mind. Remember the key is ACTION. GO FOR IT TODAY!
THE NEXT TIME YOU DISCOVER THAT YOU ARE PROCRASTINATING DO THE FOLLOWING AND HOPE THAT IT WILL GIVE YOU A HARD ENOUGH KICK UP THE BACKSIDE TO MOVE YOU OFF YOUR CHAIR!
I often find it astounding to see how people can “procrastinate” their lives away. There are so many people that have good intentions, but never start their vehicle of life. They sit ready in the racing position, but for some reason not clear to me never start their success vehicles engine. They have the plans; they have the desire, but sit there frozen behind the wheel of their success vehicle and obviously are going nowhere fast. You can have the most powerful racing car, but only when you start your engine and push hard on the petrol pedal will forward movement take place. You can sit behind the wheel of the vehicle of life and pray, medicate or visualize all you like, but will make no progress towards you goals, objectives or desired outcomes until you actually drive off towards your target. You can sit there and blame your company, friends, family or even God for your disposition, but you are ultimately the one that needs to turn the key in the ignition and drive off onto the highway of life.
Procrastination is responsible for poor performance. Procrastination is the killer of dreams. Procrastination destroys potential and keeps you frozen in a state of mediocrity. Try and find any person that achieved anything worthwhile in life that waited and hoped that success would come his or her way. The achievers in life often start their engines and lay down rubber on the highway of life long before their plans and goals are fully formed in their minds. They know that the most difficult part of achieving their goals is not the actual action, but to overcome their fear of failure or pain that keeps the glued in one sport. The champions start their engines early and begin to move in the general direction of their goal or objective long before the smaller details of their plans are worked out or double-checked. They know that adjustments can be made along the way while the fools remains frozen behind their desks. The desk dwellers are experts at justifying their pathetic performance. They are forever waiting for a road map or something else. Any excuse will do as long as they can justify why they are still not moving towards the desired outcome. I have seen educated men and women that suffer with “action anxiety” all my life. Their fear of the unknown or their anxiety to go outside their comfort zones keep them prisoner.
I WILL TODAY FOLLOW THE “JUST DO IT” METHOD. IT WILL IMMEDIATELY START DOING THINGS BEFORE I HAVE TIME TO THINK AND WORRY ABOUT THE 1001 THINGS THAT MIGHT GO WRONG!
Why not try a bit of reverse psychology today. Why not visualise and see what your outcome will be if you fail to take action. Do not justify your lack of action. Simply think of the consequences if you take no action. See how idiotic you look in your frozen position. See how people get a head start on you because of your fear of potential pain. Feel like the coward you are when you allow your fear to override your will to act. Experience the remorse that you will feel when somebody with much less potential than you takes the first prize or get the lucrative deal. Think what your children will think about you when they discover their father or mother is a coward. Think what the love of your life will think if she or he discovers that, you are a coward. Project yourself to your final day on the job and how you will feel when you discover that you wasted half your life waiting and hoping.
The next time something needs to be done, get up and do it immediately and without hesitation. Stop creating monsters in your mind. Remember the key is ACTION. GO FOR IT TODAY!
Everyday you make a thousand choices. You choose what to wear, where to go, who to meet, what to eat and what to do. MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL, YOU decide WHAT TO THINK. One thing is sure and that is that your day will not be better than your thoughts. ...................
Just close your eyes for a moment and see if you can visualise this open toolbox and if you can see the hundreds of tools that are neatly placed in this toolbox. Now look if you can see the maker’s name on these tools. The creator of these tools (thoughts and perceptions) is you. You created thousands of thoughts and perceptions (tools) about everything since your childhood. ..................
When confronted with any situation or problem you reach into this toolbox and take out what you think the most appropriate tool would be and then attempt to fix the problem. It is estimated that your mind thinks at least 2,500 thoughts an hour. Every thought that you think is a tool (perception) that you have that you imagine would work best under specific circumstances. This thought process continues day and night and will do so for the rest of your life. .....................................
I am convinced that we think ourselves to a standstill. We never stop playing with these tools in our toolbox and can hardly ever really relax for a while. If we are not faced with a problem or task that needs completion we still continue to take out these tools and mentally rehears and contemplate how we will use them should something that we fear become a reality. ............................
We are forever thinking and scheming and never become still and tranquil inside. Our bodies might seem relaxed, but deep inside our heads this thought process continues churning around. What I am most worried about is that most of the tools that you have in your toolbox are very old and outdated. .......................
Many of the opportunities, problems and obstructions that you face daily cannot be repaired while you are using old and outdated tools. If you take a modern mechanic’s toolbox and you place the toolbox of a mechanic of fifty years ago next to it you will find that there are major discrepancies. When you are confronted with something that needs repair and you do not have the right tool for the task at hand it can be very frustrating. We usually improvise and try using some other tools and hope that it will also get the job done. ........................
When you are faced with a problem you need to select the right tool for the task at hand. If you do not have the tool in your toolbox it can complicate your life. What most people seem to ignore is that it is sometimes better not to reach for your toolbox when faced with a problem. Sometimes you need time to pass or need to leave the problem with its rightful owner. How well you use your tools is usually reflected in the world you see around you. What would you do if you were faced with any or all of the following? .........................
You get a flat tire on your way to an important customer or meeting. You can fall apart, develop a migraine and think that life is against you or you can take out the right tools (patience and reality) and take care of the problem in a relaxed manner. ........................
You have been working on the computer for hours and suddenly lose all your work. You can drop dead with a heart attack; think that God hates you or you can take out the right tool (sanity and reality) and begin over and this time remember to make a backup of your work. ....................
A lover or wife possibly cheated on you. You can go crazy and get an assassin to take out the potential threat to your relationship, think that you are a failure or you can take out the right tool (no fear of loss) and get on with your life. .......................
When you have the right tools in your toolbox it makes life a lot easier. The choices we make are vital in our lives. The more quality choices we make during any given day the higher the probability of success and peace of mind. ................
I suggest that you equip your toolbox with the best tools you can lay your hands on. It is important to upgrade if you discover that one of your tools are outdated or that a more modern version is available. How would you react if your TV packed up and a technician that obviously knows very little about electronics arrived at your house with only a sledgehammer and a few other primitive tools in his toolbox? I am sure that you will send him away and find someone better qualified and equipped for the task. .....................
You might sometimes be like this incompetent and poorly equipped technician indicated above if you do not often update your tools (thoughts) in your toolbox. You can also have all the right tools in your toolbox and never use them because you are afraid that you might make a mistake. ..................
You must remember that happiness and success is always just one thought (tool) away. You should remember when you find it difficult to cope with something that one new tool (thought) could change your life. One fresh thought and one new idea can change your life from pain and suffering to success and peace of mind. ........................
You are today what you were programmed with yesterday. The choices that you make on a moment-to-moment basis decide your fate and future. You can never feel or perform better than the ongoing thoughts and feelings that you allow to occupy your mind! .......................
The mistake we make is that most of us live our lives on a reactive basis. We start and complete our day in a reactive state of being. Something comes to our attention via our five senses or via a thought in our mind. We automatically slip into the “role” that we created for ourselves many moons ago. We act, react and experience the same feelings and emotions that we embedded with our scrip at its inception. We do exactly the same when new stimuli push the previous “drama” off the stage in our minds. We sustain this reactive mode of thinking until we finally go to bed at night. Most of our days are made up of a tapestry of “roles” that we played in our own colorful way. It is important to understand that nothing is going to change until we do something different. We cannot repeat the same old recipes and expect a different outcome. ....................
You can use the “Portable Life Skills Wisdom” book to develop a range of appropriate scripts that you can use when you are faced with a problem or project that need your attention. You will if you apply the scripts in this book find that you no longer run your life on a reactive basis. The new scripts will help you to live your life in the moment. You will become more realistic. You will treat each event on its own merit. How do you do this? ......................
The Process ....................
Read the first message in your book. Write it down if at all possible. It will assist you to absorb the data provided. Now sit back and close your eyes and visualize how you will apply the specific message in the various areas of your life. See yourself on the screen of your mind using the message in all your day-to-day activities. It is important to attempt to feel and experience the benefits that this new mode of thinking will bring into your life. Do this for ten minutes. Then open your eyes and begin to apply the wisdom on all occasions where appropriate in your activities on that given day. ...........................
Proceed to do the same with second message etc. in your book tomorrow. You will upload almost a thousand powerful recipes if you sustain the process indicated above. You can in less than three years upload a powerful “tool” system that will serve you for the rest of your life. This can be a life changing experience if you apply it daily. You will discover that the ten minutes you invest daily will upload countless new strategies into your subconscious computer. Build a successful and happy life. The key however is action. You can have the best tools available to man and still fail if you don’t use them daily. Wishing you the very best with this endeavor. .............................
Daily Support System (This Blog) ................
You not only have the massive key ideas in the book that you can use when appropriate you also receive daily posts on a wide range of subjects that will expand this system to a level never offered before. Visit this blog daily for fresh new ideas with a sprinkle of historical wisdom that stood the test of time. ..........................
Rene