There are many that are controlled from beyond the grave by a judgmental father/mother.

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Prejudice is the main reason why the world is in the state it is today. We go around with our ego driven prejudices and view everything that falls outside our prefabricated mental borders and belief system with dismay. Most of us have this obsession to be right in everything we do or say. We became a tribe of fault finders and do not allow any opportunity to criticize or judge slip by. We fail to grasp the most basic principle of unconditional love. We kill others mentally each and everyday. Once we formed a perception about somebody, we treat such person according to our preconceived norm for the rest of his life. Don’t feel guilty my friend because he/she is probably doing the same. There are many that are still controlled from beyond the grave by a judgmental father or mother. 

Rene

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Most of us AUTOMATICALLY slip into our reaction patterns/jump to conclusions

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The ROOT CAUSE of most of our PROBLEMS and FRUSTRATIONS can be traced to an INADEQUATE SELF-IMAGE and SELF-ESTEEM. Our feelings of inadequacy stem from FEELINGS and IMAGES that we stored in our heads when we were five, six or seven years old. We formed perceptions about ourselves at this young age. These feelings and images have been around since then. These FEELINGS, EMOTIONS and IMAGES still govern everything you do, say or the way you interpret what other say or do. They say that the average person use less than 5% of his/her potential. It stands to reason that it is very difficult to confront PROBLEMS or PERFORM above average when your using the SELF-IMAGE and SELF-ESTEEM of a child of six to drive your GOALS and DREAMS or attempt to SOLVE PROBLEMS. Can you think what disorder you would create if you assigned fairly mundane project to a six year old? We learned and gain in experience and cope to some extent with our day-today activities, but run into problems when these day-to-day activities trigger our feelings and emotions. Most of us AUTOMATICALLY slip into our reaction patterns and our SELF-ESTEEMS start dominating all our actions and reaction. We react with ANGER, EMOTIONAL OUTBURSTS. We apportion BLAME, become JEALOUS or SULK when things don’t go our way. You may feel that it is impossible, but ponder what I shared above and you will soon agree that many of the INADEQUACIES programmed into our heads are still ACTIVE and CONTROL many of our thoughts, feelings, decisions and responses.

Rene.

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