What you think is displayed in the image you project to the people around you.

YOUR COMPOSURE CAN MAKE YOU OR BREAK YOU. THE WAY YOU WALK AND TALK AND PRESENT YOURSELF WILL DECIDE THE LEVEL ON INFLUENCE YOU EXERT!

Very few people understand the powerful role their composure plays in everything they do and how they feel. You can never act in a positive manner if you go around with a troubled look on your face, slumped shoulders and whine in your voice. How can you think and act in a positive manner if your whole demeanour is that of a loser or fader? What you think is displayed in the image you project to the people around you. I have never seen a person with a negative attitude and poor self-image go up to any rostrum to receive first prize. I have never seen any person with the image of a bird with a broken wing sell like a champion. I have never seen a parent with the image of a bull-terrier win the love and respect of his own children. What you project activates chemicals in your brain that will either fuel your passion or dowse the fire in your heart.

How can you expect to feel, act and be positive if you project an image of a dog that got one too many hiding? The point I am making here is that you have the power within you to turn you negative feelings around by simply adjusting your composure. When you feel down and defeated, pull back your shoulders, lift your head and take a few deep breaths. Look life and people straight in the eye. This will immediately trigger positive chemicals in your brain. The dark clouds will lift from your brain and stop smothering your creativity and passion.

This might sound too simple to be worth much, but just try it the next time you feel down and defeated. You will be amazed what power is locked up in your brain that will be unleashed when you use this method. You will discover that the sun will push away the dark clouds of despair and the feelings of gloom that kept you imprisoned in a mental torture chamber will dissipate. You will begin to act in a manner conducive to winning again. Please remember that you cannot think or act in a positive manner with an image that remind you of a helpless child.

I NOW HAVE A TRIGGER MECHANISM THAT I CAN USE IN MOMENTS WHEN I FEEL DEFEATED, OUTCLASSED OR DOWN.

If you want to exert influence, you will have to look at the image that you project while at work and play. People treat you the way you project yourself. People, will use and abuse you if you go around with the image of a defeated man. You will feel exactly what you project. People do not follow losers and cry babies. They latch onto winners and people that make them feel safe and protected.

Will you put your life in the hands of a doctor that project an image of insecurity and hesitation? Will you invest money with a person that presents you with an image of an illiterate person? You must never forget that life is a jungle out there. If you show any sign of weakness or vulnerability, the vultures, and scavengers of life will appear like magic.

In nature the weak always becomes the victim of the strong. When a kudu feels ill or appear injured, the scavengers will target and devour him. In life, it is the same. When your head and shoulder go down you lose your zest for life. Your tone of voice drops to a whisper or whine and your feel drained and tired. Remember the trigger to get you out of this frame of mind is to reverse the process.

Lift your head and shoulders. Take a few deep breaths and walk like a man with a mission. You will be pleasantly surprised how quickly you feel in control again and how much fresh new energy will begin to pump through your body and mind.

Rene

 

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KNOW WHEN TO CUT YOUR LOSSES AND MOVE ON

POWER TOOL: SAVE TIME, MONEY, FRUSTRATION, YOUR MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP, YOUR JOB AND LIVE LONGER BY KNOWING WHEN TO CUT YOUR LOSSES. THERE COMES A TIME WHEN YOU NEED TO GRASP THAT SOMETHING YOU ARE DOING, SAYING OR INVOLVED IN OR WITH IS JUST NOT WORKING TO YOUR OWN OR FOR THAT MATTER ANYBODY ELSE’S ADVANTAGE. THERE COMES A TIME WHEN YOU MUST PUT SOMETHING DOWN AND MOVE ON (WALK AWAY) WITHOUT LOOKING BACK TO WHAT COULD OR SHOULD HAVE BEEN. WAKE UP AND SEE THINGS AS THEY ARE. THE PRICE CAN JUST BE TO HIGH – FINANCIALLY AND EMOTIONALLY. WHAT YOU PUT IN MIGHT NEVER ACHIEVE THE FANTASY OUTCOME THAT YOU DESIRE. IT WILL TAKE REAL COURAGE, BUT COULD ALSO EXTEND YOUR LIFE.

 

You don’t need a million in the bank, be an author, a top athlete and an amazing partner, father or mother before you view yourself as successful.

There are few rules that you will need to change if you want to improve the quality of your life forever. You need to grasp that there is no rule that state that you need to be perfect all the time to be successful. It is a fantasy to think that you must have a super high IQ to become successful. There is no need for your partner or children to obey you 100% of the time and never complain about anything you do or say. The idea that circumstances must be perfect or no success is possible is a fallacy. You don’t need a million in the bank, be an author, a top athlete and an amazing partner, father or mother before you view yourself as successful. The objective must be to get rid of the absurd idea that you are not allowed to make mistakes if you want to become and remain successful.

 Rene

KNOWLEDGE = POWER

 

People feed from each other emotionally, physically and socially. You will often be dropped like a hot potato once you are depleted of whatever a person was feeding on.

The most powerful way to develop your self-confidence is to stop looking at life through a “pink” filter system. You must see people, family, friends, strangers, business and religion in a realistic and stripped down manner. The first thing you need to do is to answer a very simple question. The question is – what is the real intention (agenda) of this person or institution? You need to dig deeper and uncover the real agendas and intentions, not the often bullshit masks and camouflage presented as bait. They for example might not really care as much as you think they do about saving your soul. Their real intention might be your money or the free hours you will spend “selling” their cause (books or ideologies etc.). That friendly politician might not care a fuck about you, your future or your family, but will tell you whatever you will be prepared to swallow to get your vote. I don’t want you to become paranoid and see a conspiracy in every shadow. All I am suggesting is that you make it your business to find the source reasons why a person, company etc. is attempting to connect with you or sustain their connection with you. You might think that this guy is buying you flowers and sending you romantic message on your phone because of your wonderful personality and blue eye. His only goal might be to get you into bed and chalk up one more victory in the pecker department. Awareness is the key to success. Ask questions and probe until you fully understand what or who you are dealing with. We need to become realistic if we want to uncover why we often end up the victim. The following might sound cynical, but you do not really have a massive supply of true friends that will die for you. Most friendships and for that matter even relationships are built on a parasitic* foundation. People feed from each other emotionally, physically and socially. You will often be dropped like a hot potato once you are depleted of whatever a person was feeding on. Set yourself free by expecting nothing from nobody. Appreciate life and your relationships on a moment to moment basis.

 

Rene

 

parasitic*

 

Usually, although parasites harm their hosts, it is in the parasite’s best interest not to kill the host, because it relies on the host’s body and body functions, such as digestion or blood circulation, to live.

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